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> Is it not rape if you don't resist? It's not rape if the other person has no way of telling that you want them to stop.
by brazzy 13y ago
> Is it not rape if you don't resist?
It's not rape if the other person has no way of telling that you want them to stop.
- wilkie 13y agoThis would condone drugging your victim and is obviously and dangerously wrong.
- brazzy 13y agoYes, obviously that is an important exception, which doesn't change the fact that the statement is generally correct.
- wilkie 13y agoIt highlights the fact that you are being far too general about when rape is allowed.
- brazzy 13y agoOr the fact that you are being far too general about what is rape.
- wilkie 13y agoGuess which of us that makes more likely to be morally right about this issue. I'll save you the trouble; it's me. If you are wrong about what is not rape, you've raped somebody. It's not hard to get clear consent.
- brazzy 13y agoAh, that's all that matters here, isn't it? that you are morally right and have no doubts about it. It's nice if one can make the world so simple.
- wilkie 13y agoYes, actually, I don't have any doubts about it. I'm removing the capacity for doubt by being responsibly cautious. That's my responsibility. That's our responsibility. It's not even remotely fantasy to consider this.
- Dylan16807 13y agoI think you've forgotten that alcohol is such a drug that makes it harder to resist. It doesn't matter why the drug is in your system. So this situation goes back to the rape category.
- chris_wot 13y agoNo, it highlights the fact that what you have said is not correct, and a court of law would show you to be wrong.
- druphoria 13y agoSo if someone starts fingering a random girl in public and she freezes in shock and fear, it's not sexual assault because she couldn't gather her wits in time to resist? Because that's what happened.
- gregd 13y agoIt's not rape if the other person has no way of telling that you want them to stop. The fact that you committed this sentence to HN boggles my mind.
- chris_wot 13y agoNo, it's still rape.
- binarycleric 13y agoI know we're all programmers here but stop trying to build rules and logic around this. We all (should) have the common sense to understand when something is rape and when something is not. There is no trigger, there is no conditional, there is no callback, it just is and people who fail to understand this make me sick. A number of people's lives have been forever changed by the recently surfaced actions and instead of focusing on the "what ifs" and the hypothetical situations we focus on fixing the underlying problems within our community.
- For_Iconoclasm 13y agoThere is an extremely simple logical construct surrounding this: consent is not the default state of the other party. What is not easy to understand is how people don't understand this. :\