I don't think it's self-obsessed to care about your privacy, and I don't think there shouldn't a reasonable expectation of privacy in public places. For example

I don't think it's self-obsessed to care about your privacy, and I don't think there shouldn't a reasonable expectation of privacy in public places. For example, if you're a woman and you bend over, and someone snaps a photo down your blouse, and that ends up on a creepshot website, are we supposed to cross our arms and say, "Deal with it, lady--you were in a public place"? To what degree does being in a public place negate civility and privacy?