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Open source is not a war zone

244 points by oneandoneis2 13y ago

belorn 13y ago
Nice to see someone else pointing out the statistics probability for women in tech conferences. Just doing some basic calculations, the risk in going to a tech conference with 95% male vs 5% female has about 20 times higher risk than participating in a 50/50 conference if one assume that sexual assaults are male->female. Like the term going postal, I would really like to see a study that could prove or disprove if technology conferences are in a higher risk group of sexual assault or if that reputation is just perceived risk vs actually risk.
- yummyfajitas 13y ago
  I'm curious about your calculations - my calculations suggest the probability of an assault goes up with the number of women. Assume the probability of an individual man being an assaulter is beta, with alpha the fraction of women. Assume further any person interacts with K people at a conference, and if one of them is a woman he will assault her. Under the assumptions, the probability of an individual at the conference being assaulted is 1-pow(1-alpha, kbeta(1-alpha)). That number increases, at least until approximately alpha ~= 60%. http://i.imgur.com/CRm0I0i.png http://i.imgur.com/CRm0I0i.png tl;dr Basic rule of interaction models. More interactions == more interaction effects.
  - Flenser 13y ago
    I don't think you are calculating the same thing. Your calculations are that an assult will happen, whereas belorn was calculating for a specific woman, whether she would be the victim.
    - yummyfajitas 13y ago
      I calculated the probability of an individual human being assaulted.
      - antimagic 13y ago
        Let's use your equation with k = 20, alpha = 0.5 and beta = 0.1. This gives the probability of a person being assaulted as => 1 - pow(1 - alpha, kbeta(1 - alpha)) => 1 - pow(0.5, 20 * 0.1 * 0.5) => 1 - pow(0.5, 1) => 0.5 There's a 50% chance that a person will be assaulted. Divide by the number of women (10) gives a probability of 0.05 that a particular woman will be assaulted. Now let's do the same thing, but changing alpha to 0.05 1 - pow(0.95, 20 * 0.1 * 0.95) => 1 - pow(0.95, 1.9) => 0.09 However as there is only one woman , that 0.09 probability is all her. In other words her odds of being assaulted have just about doubled.
      - datr 13y ago
        You've calculated the probability that _some_ individual will be assaulted. The probability that a given female will be assaulted though would be (I think): P = 1 - \sum_{m=0}^K \choose{m}{K} (1-beta)^m (1-alpha)^m alpha^{K-m}
  - belorn 13y ago
    Well, we are talking about basic calculations with just a few assumptions put in. As such, I would like to see a research worthy report on the subject. In my number, I considered that in a group, a subset of the people will have a tendency to do sexual assault. If we only view the assaults as male -> female, than a 95%/5% conference will have 1.9 more such individuals with such tendencies compared to a equal sized 50%/50% conference. I also assume that the number of assaults will have a direct correlation with the number of people that a tendency towards sexual assaults. The risk of any individual female participant will then be the number of assaults divided with the number of females at the conference. In the 95%/5% case, there will be a only a 1/10th of female participants and as such, you get 10*1.9 = 19 increased risk vs a 50%/50%. I rounded it to 20. Your data point about the time each male spend with someone of the opposite sex is an interesting data point, but I do not know if there is a correlated to the number of sexual assaults and the time an assailant spends with the opposite sex. It need to be above zero, but beyond that I do not know. It would be effected by behavior theory of predators, and if they actively go out of their way to seek victims or not.
    - yummyfajitas 13y ago
      I see where our calculations differ. I'm assuming an assaulter can only assault one of the K < conference size people he meets, while you are assuming he can assault anyone anywhere. You are also measuring assaults/female as opposed to assaults/human. That seems a little odd to me - if the number of assaults doubles, but the number of females triples, is that a good thing?
      - belorn 13y ago
        The individual risk for each female participant do go down if the number of female participants goes up. I would not categorize it as either bad or good, just an aspect of the nature of risk. In the end through, I only trust my own numbers as a vague hint about what could be. There is just too many assumptions I make and factors to consider (such as group behavior, predator behavior, and so on). I hope a researcher, research student, or foundation will get interested in this topic so the answer to the question can be made once and for all.
- Shish2k 13y ago
  > prove or disprove if technology conferences are in a higher risk group of sexual assault Sexual awkwardness and unintentional offence at a tech conference I can entirely believe; but is there really an (even perceived, if not proven) higher rate of /assault/ among nerds than average people? :S
  - arethuza 13y ago
    "higher rate of /assault/ among nerds than average people" Pretty much the only "nerd rage" incident I can think of was a recent fight between Star Wars and Dr Who fans: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-norfolk-22542222 http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-norfolk-22542222
    - bitwize 13y ago
      I knew England had soccer hooligans, but I wasn't expecting Doctor Who-ligans!
  - Cthulhu_ 13y ago
    Not sure. It goes both ways. On the one side, nerds at tech conferences generally fall into the 'higher educated' category, who iirc are statistically less inclined to go into crime (and if they do, it's the type that pays off in millions instead of, say, burglar the local gas station). However. I'm inclined to believe there's a bastard in everyone. I'm also inclined to believe the amount of single, frustrated men in IT is generally higher than other areas, where frustration can turn into anger, lashing out, and misogyny. There's also 'dude culture', where people in different demographics (gender, in this case) are made fun of / stereotyped / objectified. tl;dr, it's complicated and I'm just thinking out loud here. Define "average"
  - sp332 13y ago
    There is some really crazy stuff that happens, but since very close to 100% of it happens to women, it's hard to get men to even believe it's happening. https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3165434 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3165434 and https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2572245 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2572245 for example. Edit: this article seems to have been moved http://web.archive.org/web/20110703201447/http://www.tammycamp.com/2011/05/21/how-i-deal-with-sexual-discrimination-in-a-positive-way.html http://web.archive.org/web/20110703201447/http://www.tammyca... but there is discussion here https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2571874 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2571874
- derleth 13y ago
  > if one assume that sexual assaults are male->female. Which is not valid.
nnnnni 13y ago
It's great to see that some people are remaining level-headed after the amount of butthurt that was caused at the recent convention. The lady who whined about two guys having a private conversation was a jerk. She's the type who ruins things for everyone.
- NoahTheDuke 13y ago
  It's not a private conversation when one is in an audience. (See: talking during a movie.)
- rjknight 13y ago
  And so great to see that you're continuing the spirit of reasonableness and tolerance!
  - hkmurakami 13y ago
    Touché
  - kanja 13y ago
    Because committing a gender and race based hate crime is the highlight of reasonableness and tolerance. But no, no the people pointing out hate crimes are bad - they're the real problems here.
    - mtrimpe 13y ago
      You completely lost me here, but nothing in the SendGrid scandal even comes close to deserving the label hate crime. A hate crime is when some of my gay friends get their face beaten in once again because they were holding hands.
      - davidcelis 13y ago
        I didn't know that massive amounts of death and/or rape threats didn't count as hate crime. Thanks for the enlightenment.
jabbernotty 13y ago
I would like to read this, but the site is being blocked by websense. Could someone put it on pastebin, or something like that?
- waterhouse 13y ago
  http://pastebin.com/XuLpXxvN http://pastebin.com/XuLpXxvN
  - jabbernotty 13y ago
    Thank you, both.
- evadne 13y ago
  https://gist.github.com/evadne/5598396 https://gist.github.com/evadne/5598396
static_typed 13y ago
Sadly, whereas tech conferences should be about the tech and the cool, interesting and rewarding things we can do with it, it instead becomes dragged down into a drama, where one woman can do more damage to other women then all the men present (thinking about the pycon incident). As my colleague a female developer, often says "These gynosaurs ruin it for the rest of us".
RyanZAG 13y ago
We are women of Perl and we're actually quite happy with our community. I was unaware that there even were Perl conferences anymore - can anybody involved here give some overview of the different Perl conferences and any history of gender issues?
- oneandoneis2 13y ago
  Google "YAPC" (Yet Another Perl Conference) for the current Perl conferences - there's YAPCs in North America, Europe, and Japan that I'm aware of, and probably others.
- hkmurakami 13y ago
  * We are women of Perl and we're actually quite happy with our community.* I've heard that the Perl community is the most accepting of all the OSS communities out there, so this doesn't surprise me, and also delights me to hear :)
  - _pmf_ 13y ago
    It might be that they just have the most mature developers.
- amoore 13y ago
  YAPC::NA (the North American "Yet Another Perl Conference") is my favorite tech conference to attend, probably because it seems to be rather "by perl developers, for perl developers". The YAPC conferences seem to have come about after the original perl conferences became OSCON. The perl community developed something specific to perl again, and something that was more intimate, casual, and affordable. There are YAPC conferences all over the world, like YAPC::EU and YAPC::Asia and others. My experience is only with the North American one, and it's typically 3 days of technical sessions with one or more optional days of more formal classes before or after it. A conference ticket is cheap, say $100, and you can get a dorm room for cheaper than a hotel room if you like. That's part of the effort to make the conference affordable and open to anyone. Another, more recent part of that effort seems to be adopting a more formal code of conduct. I think that's popular with a lot of technical conferences these days. Recently, Schwern, one of the prominent members of the perl community withdrew from the conference and described why here: http://blog.schwern.net/2013/05/15/yapcna-2013-withdrawal/ http://blog.schwern.net/2013/05/15/yapcna-2013-withdrawal/ The article linked from this HN post seems to be a reaction to that. Anyway, YAPC::NA is in Austin this year, and should be a great conference. Check out http://www.yapcna.org/yn2013/ http://www.yapcna.org/yn2013/ if you want to read more about it.
rdl 13y ago
Between the really obviously bad stuff (people being physically assaulted in general, whether at an event or not, and having a decent way to handle reporting for that kind of thing), and stupid things (people telling jokes privately in an audience and being overheard), there are some situations where I actually appreciate learning how some behavior might be unintentionally offensive and could be easily corrected. Essentially in the same category as wanting to learn about some people being colorblind and how using certain color combinations alone for UI distinctions is thus a bad idea, or that scheduling a developer event for which you'd like to attract students around traditional finals time is probably a bad idea. Whether or not some behavior is "wrong", it's still good to know if certain things have consequences you don't want. I think every developer community wants to be as inclusive to competent/interested people as possible, so when there are no or low cost ways to make an event more appealing, that's great.
- gbog 13y ago
  > unintentionally offensive The problem is that there is a current emphasis againt those faux-pas when the offended part are women, while it is not the only case, and maybe not even the most critical for the better of human beings. I'd say the cultural faux-pas that are really dangerous and should be avoided are those between remote cultures. If I offend a girl of my own culture or country by some behavior, at least she will not misunderstand it too wildly. But if I go to a remote place, I may unintentionally behave in a way that might hinder for a long time the way foreigners are perceived in this place. Then the consequences can be nefarious. Let's give an example: I am French, criticizing is a kind of national sport. If I come to some Chinese guy's house, and see a contemporay painting hung in the living room, I might say "Oh! So you like this kind of painting? I really don't understand it. Is it expensive? What! That much for a bunch of strokes?" But in places like China, where negativity is not expressed up front for no reason, this supposedly frank and personal impression can only be understood as the most brutal way to spit in your host's face, and it is speedily deduced that all foreigners are a bunch of brutes. In short, if you are a dick at home, only you are a dick, and it is rarely unintentional; while if you are unintentionally a dick oversee, all your countrymen becomes brutes.
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c0n5pir4cy 13y ago
That was a good read, I would say that some tech conferences are that worried about the bad press they are becoming a little misandristic.
- kanja 13y ago
  It's a tough edge to walk - the kerfuffle with brit ruby shows that people will look for reasons to target a con to push an agenda. Not to excuse any gender based discrimination, but I think it does put it in context.
- blocking_io 13y ago
  Misandry isn't real
  - theorique 13y ago
    It's impossible for an organization or event to ever act in a way that disadvantages men?
    - blocking_io 13y ago
      I suppose that it's possible, but it never happens.
- juridatenshi 13y ago
  Yes, it's become so hard to be a man at tech conferences. They're so filled with hate for men that one could describe it as misandry. Did the feminazis also steal your ice cream?
  - metaphorm 13y ago
    its not hard to be a man at a tech conference. it is, however, hard to a PERSON at a tech conference. its important to acknowledge the socially destructive chilling effect that all the recent controversies/scandals have caused.
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theorique 13y ago
This actually sounds rational and not hysterical - well done! Though I'm not a Perl user, I think these women would be a delight to hang out with, drink beer, and talk about open source.
- AlexandrB 13y ago
  > This actually sounds rational and not hysterical - well done! Nice choice of words: http://etymonline.com/?term=hysterical http://etymonline.com/?term=hysterical
daemonfire300 13y ago
I think the title is quite confusing, I expected some what of an essay about problems with the opensource community, rather than yet another gender article.
marquis 13y ago
>encountering 2 dicks at a 500 people conference are AMAZING odds - nowhere else in our every day lives the odds are THAT good. This made me smile with delightful recognition - it's been, more often than not, that I've been treated with the utmost respect by my male peers in the tech world. The same is not true in other industries I participate in where women are even less represented, or old-school boy networks still reign.
Deejahll 13y ago
The authors mischaracterize the "code of conduct" statement first as a redundant legal system, then as a decree that "spreads guilt onto an entire gender," then as an "overarching act of protection condemning basically every social behavior between men and women." A code of conduct is none of those things. It is an invitation: "this is how we expect people attending our event to behave; where you find it not so, be assured that your concerns will not be ignored. Here are ways to help the event organizers address conflicts: A, B, C." There is a legitimate need for this statement to be made.
- rlpb 13y ago
  It's also really handy to be able to refer to a code of conduct directly to curb inappropriate behaviour. Referring to one gives more power to a direct and immediate request for someone to curb his inappropriate behaviour. This worked has well for me (I'm male, if it matters) at the one conference I've seen inappropriate (if unintended) behaviour. A shout of "that's inappropriate; we have a code of conduct here; move on to the next slide or get off the stage" worked very well for me. Using this turns an implied "that's inappropriate [in my opinion]" into a specific and much more powerful "that's inappropriate [according to our rules]".
  - baudtack 13y ago
    Now I'm curious what conference.
  - saraid216 13y ago
    Yup. This is exactly how rule of law works. A codified, criticized, and iterated set of demands is more useful than simply having a lone opinion in a mostly egalitarian setting precisely because your opinion isn't alone and you can prove it without asking anyone else to spend social capital.
desireco42 13y ago
This needed to be said and I think they said it beautifully. Nothing else.
k__ 13y ago
> Open Source Is Not A Warzone Like anyone has the right to make this claim ;))
mjg59 13y ago
Experiences vary. Responses to certain things depend on what's happened to you in the past. Some people's sexual harassment is someone else's harmless flirting, an entirely innocent joke may be an unintended racial slur. The same incident viewed by different people may be interpreted entirely differently. So yeah, it's great that there are women who feel safe in open source communities. It's wonderful that they've felt welcomed and unharassed. It would be entirely inappropriate to say that their experience is false or to suggest that they should object to behaviour that they feel is perfectly acceptable. But it's also entirely inappropriate to suggest that the experience of women who don't feel safe is somehow false or unwarranted. Changing the culture of our communities isn't a zero sum game. Making them more accessible shouldn't come at the cost of alienating women who are happy with how things are, but nor should those who are happy with how things are resist efforts to improve the happiness of others.
- mnicole 13y ago
  Yeah, I had a bit of a struggle with: > Yes, we encountered dicks in our lives. Yes, we have been assaulted in our lives, maybe in broad daylight, in public. Yes, we've been hit on tastelessly and repeatedly and we have been disgusted and annoyed and sometimes we have been near panic. Some of us have encountered violence. We've gotten grabbed our asses, gotten felt up our boobs, have been stared at, wolf whistles at us and had some drunken moron hang in front of us. Yes, some of us have hit the proverbial glass ceiling in our careers. > This is (a bad) part of our lives and yes, we judge social gathering and human encounters by how comfortable we are and how safe we feel and by their level of open or veiled dickishness. > But this is only ONE aspect of being a woman and we do not like to let this aspect dominate how we live and behave within the tech communities of our choice. The first paragraph acknowledges sexual and physical assaults/harassment, the second acknowledges that these shape our worldview, but the third implies that the victim is able to overcome the problem and let it slide off of their back. I think this is a bit if a dangerous message to send because it negates the unfortunate reality that it is always in the back of your mind and it insinuates that these encounters are one-offs, as opposed to childhood trauma or ongoing domestic issues (ignoring that a lot of the harassment faced these days is online and done by people who wouldn't at all think to do it in real-life). Also I'm not sure if "assault" is coming from someone's CoC, but: > We also like to keep the vocabulary appropriate: An "assault" is an act of violence, an agressive act to overpower a person. We do not feel being hit on tastelessly being an assault. A blunt stare into our cleavage is not an assault. Someone accidently touching us is not an assault. The typical french pseudo-kiss-hug is a cultural thing and not an assault. A hug might be a completely friendly act and not an assault - even if it might not be welcome. .. comes off more as "Hey guys, don't worry! We're not tight-asses about this stuff!" vs. "Assault is the wrong word to use, but these are still forms of harassment depending on the person and the action, so please know when and what is appropriate for whom."
CurtMonash 13y ago
Excellent. Puts the focus right where it belongs -- on principles, not on specific rules of behavior. The closest thing we really need to codes of conduct is consciousness-raising reminders of the sorts of things that can go wrong EVEN WITHOUT OVERT physically-aggressive behavior. The big three of those seem to be: 1. Tiresome references to objectification of women. E.g., booth babes, scantily clad women in marketing materials, etc. 2. Tiresome repetition of individually unobjectionable signs of attraction. What's fun at gender-balanced party and tolerable OCCASIONALLY in the workplace can be oppressive if it happens too often in a professional context. So if you're attracted to a professional colleague, you should do your best to refrain from showing it. 3. Bad conversational patterns. E.g., a woman who's interrupted in conversation may not power her way back the way many men would, so you should be more careful if you have an urge to interrupt. If you want, you can add in some kind of affirmative action concept to that as well.
- solistice 13y ago
  I have to disagree with "you should do your best to refrain from showing it". I believe that the attempted refraining is causing those tiresome sexual advances. I mean I know guys on both ends of the spectrum of flirting proficiency, and it's the guys at the "refrain" end of the spectrum that make situations akward when they try. Courtship is just as much a skill as programming is. And refraining from programming because you aren't good at it is never going to get you anywhere near good. When you then try to skript something together desperately, you will fail. On the other hand, the "experienced" rarely made conversations akward for them or the girl, in fact most girls they talked with enjoyed it. Things like attraction, they're low level things, and they'll leak out. And the more you strain to hold them in, the more akward it gets. I have yet to see a person that can convincingly mask off attraction towards another person. So don't simply try to force attraction out of the workplace, rather keep anything you do there as professional as you would with other things. Also for 3. : Go get it girl!
  - CurtMonash 13y ago
    As in most non-trivial choices, context matters. I just emailed a woman that I know professionally that she is beautiful. More precisely, I replied to a photo of her lying in a hospital bed with her newborn daughter "Mother and daughter are both beautiful". I had little fear she would think I was hitting on her. :) But it took a situation that extreme for me to say that. Her job requires her to be nice to me, so I surely don't want her to regret that necessity. Back in the 1980s, when ever the most impressive of women -- e.g. Ann Winblad, Sandy Kurtzig or Esther Dyson -- felt they needed a flirtatious demeanor as part of their toolkit, I usually didn't respond ... unless, of course, we were dancing at a party. ;) But I recently saw Sandy again, made it clear she's looking awesome, and hugged her a couple of times; she's over 60 now, and at this point of her life I figured she probably wouldn't mind the attention. ;)
aidenn0 13y ago
> And let's face it: No real dick will be put off by a code of conduct helplessly condemning all kinds of unwelcome behavior - that's why they're dicks - but a huge portion of men will keep to themselves ridden by guilt because they're the ones actually thinking sensibly and will ask themselves about their own dickishness. The point of a code of conduct is not to stop dicks from being dicks. It is to remove any plausible defense. You can more easily ban dicks when you reduce ambiguities.
- angersock 13y ago
  beep boop must have non ambiguous social protocols beeep Usually zero-tolerance and codes of conduct are not enforced evenly, and serve only to lend bureaucratic weight to arbitrary (for better or worse) decisions.
lizzard 13y ago
I would love to sit down with the group of women who wrote this and get to know them. While I disagree with them that having a code of conduct is "helpless", and on many other points they make, there are plenty of ideas we share as well. I'm happy to see them taking a step towards feminist activism -- as they are in coming up with a collective statement with other women.
mindcrime 13y ago
I like the overall spirit of this article, but find this a bit puzzling: We also like to keep the vocabulary appropriate So we start off by using a slang term for a piece of male anatomy as a pejorative?
- klez 13y ago
  In this context it seems appropriate. During a conference or in a professional settings or in a church it wouldn't. Appropriate is a relative term.
- pjscott 13y ago
  Perhaps "accurate" would have been a more appropriate choice of word than "appropriate".
objhra 13y ago
Oh c'mon, like men haven't been insulted or attacked. Like men haven't met women who are complete dicks. Just because you're the weaker gender does not give you the right to assume that we are all shit and you are some cherry on top of a cake. No. This women-in-tech-is-hard stuff is so overplayed to the point of it being just plain stupid. What if every man who get's insulted by a woman who's a complete dick starts writing about the stuff you, women, do? But we don't. Why? Because we aren't that much of dicks as you, women, are. And go on, think that what I say is pure hatrid or sexism or whatever. It's not. You're statements may validate, but you're no innocent in this "war".
- Yver 13y ago
  Your comment gives me the impression that you have misread the article (or not read at all) or that you were replying to another comment. IOW, it seems you're reacting to something that's not there.
  - objhra 13y ago
    I honestly didn't even want to read any further than "We feel the overwhelming majority of men we have to deal with". I mean, "men we have to DEAL with"?
petermelias 13y ago
The attitude of that letter is refreshingly positive and sensible. A nice change from the usual super-charged sexist attitudes one way or the other that usually only spark more polarized debate that loses sight of the bigger picture. The thing that frustrated me the most about the PyCon thing was how the keynote was just completely eclipsed by the incident. Barely anyone reporting even had the consideration to mention what the keynote was about-- only that it was interrupted by a tweetsplosion.
tudorconstantin 13y ago
I've been at several YAPC::EUs and I am quite surprised to hear that there are dickheads there. People with strong, vocal opinions? Definitely, but I personally love them the most - they bring colour to the events
smoyer 13y ago
Thank you! I'm a guy and it makes me uncomfortable even watching some guy make a tasteless pass at a random woman. And regardless of what people believe, friendship is possible (and a far better prelude to other things if both parties desire). As an aside, I'd hate to be named Richard after reading that posting.

244 points by oneandoneis2 13y ago

Nice to see someone else pointing out the statistics probability for women in tech conferences. Just doing some basic calculations, the risk in going to a tech conference with 95% male vs 5% female has about 20 times higher risk than participating in a 50/50 conference if one assume that sexual assaults are male->female. Like the term going postal, I would really like to see a study that could prove or disprove if technology conferences are in a higher risk group of sexual assault or if that reputation is just perceived risk vs actually risk.

yummyfajitas 13y ago
I'm curious about your calculations - my calculations suggest the probability of an assault goes up with the number of women. Assume the probability of an individual man being an assaulter is beta, with alpha the fraction of women. Assume further any person interacts with K people at a conference, and if one of them is a woman he will assault her. Under the assumptions, the probability of an individual at the conference being assaulted is 1-pow(1-alpha, kbeta(1-alpha)). That number increases, at least until approximately alpha ~= 60%. http://i.imgur.com/CRm0I0i.png http://i.imgur.com/CRm0I0i.png tl;dr Basic rule of interaction models. More interactions == more interaction effects.
- Flenser 13y ago
  I don't think you are calculating the same thing. Your calculations are that an assult will happen, whereas belorn was calculating for a specific woman, whether she would be the victim.
  - yummyfajitas 13y ago
    I calculated the probability of an individual human being assaulted.
    - antimagic 13y ago
      Let's use your equation with k = 20, alpha = 0.5 and beta = 0.1. This gives the probability of a person being assaulted as => 1 - pow(1 - alpha, kbeta(1 - alpha)) => 1 - pow(0.5, 20 * 0.1 * 0.5) => 1 - pow(0.5, 1) => 0.5 There's a 50% chance that a person will be assaulted. Divide by the number of women (10) gives a probability of 0.05 that a particular woman will be assaulted. Now let's do the same thing, but changing alpha to 0.05 1 - pow(0.95, 20 * 0.1 * 0.95) => 1 - pow(0.95, 1.9) => 0.09 However as there is only one woman , that 0.09 probability is all her. In other words her odds of being assaulted have just about doubled.
    - datr 13y ago
      You've calculated the probability that _some_ individual will be assaulted. The probability that a given female will be assaulted though would be (I think): P = 1 - \sum_{m=0}^K \choose{m}{K} (1-beta)^m (1-alpha)^m alpha^{K-m}
- belorn 13y ago
  Well, we are talking about basic calculations with just a few assumptions put in. As such, I would like to see a research worthy report on the subject. In my number, I considered that in a group, a subset of the people will have a tendency to do sexual assault. If we only view the assaults as male -> female, than a 95%/5% conference will have 1.9 more such individuals with such tendencies compared to a equal sized 50%/50% conference. I also assume that the number of assaults will have a direct correlation with the number of people that a tendency towards sexual assaults. The risk of any individual female participant will then be the number of assaults divided with the number of females at the conference. In the 95%/5% case, there will be a only a 1/10th of female participants and as such, you get 10*1.9 = 19 increased risk vs a 50%/50%. I rounded it to 20. Your data point about the time each male spend with someone of the opposite sex is an interesting data point, but I do not know if there is a correlated to the number of sexual assaults and the time an assailant spends with the opposite sex. It need to be above zero, but beyond that I do not know. It would be effected by behavior theory of predators, and if they actively go out of their way to seek victims or not.
  - yummyfajitas 13y ago
    I see where our calculations differ. I'm assuming an assaulter can only assault one of the K < conference size people he meets, while you are assuming he can assault anyone anywhere. You are also measuring assaults/female as opposed to assaults/human. That seems a little odd to me - if the number of assaults doubles, but the number of females triples, is that a good thing?
    - belorn 13y ago
      The individual risk for each female participant do go down if the number of female participants goes up. I would not categorize it as either bad or good, just an aspect of the nature of risk. In the end through, I only trust my own numbers as a vague hint about what could be. There is just too many assumptions I make and factors to consider (such as group behavior, predator behavior, and so on). I hope a researcher, research student, or foundation will get interested in this topic so the answer to the question can be made once and for all.
Shish2k 13y ago
> prove or disprove if technology conferences are in a higher risk group of sexual assault Sexual awkwardness and unintentional offence at a tech conference I can entirely believe; but is there really an (even perceived, if not proven) higher rate of /assault/ among nerds than average people? :S
- arethuza 13y ago
  "higher rate of /assault/ among nerds than average people" Pretty much the only "nerd rage" incident I can think of was a recent fight between Star Wars and Dr Who fans: http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-norfolk-22542222 http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-norfolk-22542222
  - bitwize 13y ago
    I knew England had soccer hooligans, but I wasn't expecting Doctor Who-ligans!
- Cthulhu_ 13y ago
  Not sure. It goes both ways. On the one side, nerds at tech conferences generally fall into the 'higher educated' category, who iirc are statistically less inclined to go into crime (and if they do, it's the type that pays off in millions instead of, say, burglar the local gas station). However. I'm inclined to believe there's a bastard in everyone. I'm also inclined to believe the amount of single, frustrated men in IT is generally higher than other areas, where frustration can turn into anger, lashing out, and misogyny. There's also 'dude culture', where people in different demographics (gender, in this case) are made fun of / stereotyped / objectified. tl;dr, it's complicated and I'm just thinking out loud here. Define "average"
- sp332 13y ago
  There is some really crazy stuff that happens, but since very close to 100% of it happens to women, it's hard to get men to even believe it's happening. https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3165434 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3165434 and https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2572245 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2572245 for example. Edit: this article seems to have been moved http://web.archive.org/web/20110703201447/http://www.tammycamp.com/2011/05/21/how-i-deal-with-sexual-discrimination-in-a-positive-way.html http://web.archive.org/web/20110703201447/http://www.tammyca... but there is discussion here https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2571874 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=2571874
derleth 13y ago
> if one assume that sexual assaults are male->female. Which is not valid.

nnnnni 13y ago

It's great to see that some people are remaining level-headed after the amount of butthurt that was caused at the recent convention. The lady who whined about two guys having a private conversation was a jerk. She's the type who ruins things for everyone.

NoahTheDuke 13y ago
It's not a private conversation when one is in an audience. (See: talking during a movie.)
rjknight 13y ago
And so great to see that you're continuing the spirit of reasonableness and tolerance!
- hkmurakami 13y ago
  Touché
- kanja 13y ago
  Because committing a gender and race based hate crime is the highlight of reasonableness and tolerance. But no, no the people pointing out hate crimes are bad - they're the real problems here.
  - mtrimpe 13y ago
    You completely lost me here, but nothing in the SendGrid scandal even comes close to deserving the label hate crime. A hate crime is when some of my gay friends get their face beaten in once again because they were holding hands.
    - davidcelis 13y ago
      I didn't know that massive amounts of death and/or rape threats didn't count as hate crime. Thanks for the enlightenment.

jabbernotty 13y ago

I would like to read this, but the site is being blocked by websense. Could someone put it on pastebin, or something like that?

waterhouse 13y ago
http://pastebin.com/XuLpXxvN http://pastebin.com/XuLpXxvN
- jabbernotty 13y ago
  Thank you, both.
evadne 13y ago
https://gist.github.com/evadne/5598396 https://gist.github.com/evadne/5598396

static_typed 13y ago

Sadly, whereas tech conferences should be about the tech and the cool, interesting and rewarding things we can do with it, it instead becomes dragged down into a drama, where one woman can do more damage to other women then all the men present (thinking about the pycon incident). As my colleague a female developer, often says "These gynosaurs ruin it for the rest of us".

RyanZAG 13y ago

We are women of Perl and we're actually quite happy with our community. I was unaware that there even were Perl conferences anymore - can anybody involved here give some overview of the different Perl conferences and any history of gender issues?

oneandoneis2 13y ago
Google "YAPC" (Yet Another Perl Conference) for the current Perl conferences - there's YAPCs in North America, Europe, and Japan that I'm aware of, and probably others.
hkmurakami 13y ago
* We are women of Perl and we're actually quite happy with our community.* I've heard that the Perl community is the most accepting of all the OSS communities out there, so this doesn't surprise me, and also delights me to hear :)
- _pmf_ 13y ago
  It might be that they just have the most mature developers.
amoore 13y ago
YAPC::NA (the North American "Yet Another Perl Conference") is my favorite tech conference to attend, probably because it seems to be rather "by perl developers, for perl developers". The YAPC conferences seem to have come about after the original perl conferences became OSCON. The perl community developed something specific to perl again, and something that was more intimate, casual, and affordable. There are YAPC conferences all over the world, like YAPC::EU and YAPC::Asia and others. My experience is only with the North American one, and it's typically 3 days of technical sessions with one or more optional days of more formal classes before or after it. A conference ticket is cheap, say $100, and you can get a dorm room for cheaper than a hotel room if you like. That's part of the effort to make the conference affordable and open to anyone. Another, more recent part of that effort seems to be adopting a more formal code of conduct. I think that's popular with a lot of technical conferences these days. Recently, Schwern, one of the prominent members of the perl community withdrew from the conference and described why here: http://blog.schwern.net/2013/05/15/yapcna-2013-withdrawal/ http://blog.schwern.net/2013/05/15/yapcna-2013-withdrawal/ The article linked from this HN post seems to be a reaction to that. Anyway, YAPC::NA is in Austin this year, and should be a great conference. Check out http://www.yapcna.org/yn2013/ http://www.yapcna.org/yn2013/ if you want to read more about it.

rdl 13y ago

Between the really obviously bad stuff (people being physically assaulted in general, whether at an event or not, and having a decent way to handle reporting for that kind of thing), and stupid things (people telling jokes privately in an audience and being overheard), there are some situations where I actually appreciate learning how some behavior might be unintentionally offensive and could be easily corrected. Essentially in the same category as wanting to learn about some people being colorblind and how using certain color combinations alone for UI distinctions is thus a bad idea, or that scheduling a developer event for which you'd like to attract students around traditional finals time is probably a bad idea. Whether or not some behavior is "wrong", it's still good to know if certain things have consequences you don't want. I think every developer community wants to be as inclusive to competent/interested people as possible, so when there are no or low cost ways to make an event more appealing, that's great.

gbog 13y ago
> unintentionally offensive The problem is that there is a current emphasis againt those faux-pas when the offended part are women, while it is not the only case, and maybe not even the most critical for the better of human beings. I'd say the cultural faux-pas that are really dangerous and should be avoided are those between remote cultures. If I offend a girl of my own culture or country by some behavior, at least she will not misunderstand it too wildly. But if I go to a remote place, I may unintentionally behave in a way that might hinder for a long time the way foreigners are perceived in this place. Then the consequences can be nefarious. Let's give an example: I am French, criticizing is a kind of national sport. If I come to some Chinese guy's house, and see a contemporay painting hung in the living room, I might say "Oh! So you like this kind of painting? I really don't understand it. Is it expensive? What! That much for a bunch of strokes?" But in places like China, where negativity is not expressed up front for no reason, this supposedly frank and personal impression can only be understood as the most brutal way to spit in your host's face, and it is speedily deduced that all foreigners are a bunch of brutes. In short, if you are a dick at home, only you are a dick, and it is rarely unintentional; while if you are unintentionally a dick oversee, all your countrymen becomes brutes.
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c0n5pir4cy 13y ago

That was a good read, I would say that some tech conferences are that worried about the bad press they are becoming a little misandristic.

kanja 13y ago
It's a tough edge to walk - the kerfuffle with brit ruby shows that people will look for reasons to target a con to push an agenda. Not to excuse any gender based discrimination, but I think it does put it in context.
blocking_io 13y ago
Misandry isn't real
- theorique 13y ago
  It's impossible for an organization or event to ever act in a way that disadvantages men?
  - blocking_io 13y ago
    I suppose that it's possible, but it never happens.
juridatenshi 13y ago
Yes, it's become so hard to be a man at tech conferences. They're so filled with hate for men that one could describe it as misandry. Did the feminazis also steal your ice cream?
- metaphorm 13y ago
  its not hard to be a man at a tech conference. it is, however, hard to a PERSON at a tech conference. its important to acknowledge the socially destructive chilling effect that all the recent controversies/scandals have caused.
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theorique 13y ago

This actually sounds rational and not hysterical - well done! Though I'm not a Perl user, I think these women would be a delight to hang out with, drink beer, and talk about open source.

AlexandrB 13y ago
> This actually sounds rational and not hysterical - well done! Nice choice of words: http://etymonline.com/?term=hysterical http://etymonline.com/?term=hysterical

daemonfire300 13y ago

I think the title is quite confusing, I expected some what of an essay about problems with the opensource community, rather than yet another gender article.

marquis 13y ago

>encountering 2 dicks at a 500 people conference are AMAZING odds - nowhere else in our every day lives the odds are THAT good. This made me smile with delightful recognition - it's been, more often than not, that I've been treated with the utmost respect by my male peers in the tech world. The same is not true in other industries I participate in where women are even less represented, or old-school boy networks still reign.

Deejahll 13y ago

The authors mischaracterize the "code of conduct" statement first as a redundant legal system, then as a decree that "spreads guilt onto an entire gender," then as an "overarching act of protection condemning basically every social behavior between men and women." A code of conduct is none of those things. It is an invitation: "this is how we expect people attending our event to behave; where you find it not so, be assured that your concerns will not be ignored. Here are ways to help the event organizers address conflicts: A, B, C." There is a legitimate need for this statement to be made.

rlpb 13y ago
It's also really handy to be able to refer to a code of conduct directly to curb inappropriate behaviour. Referring to one gives more power to a direct and immediate request for someone to curb his inappropriate behaviour. This worked has well for me (I'm male, if it matters) at the one conference I've seen inappropriate (if unintended) behaviour. A shout of "that's inappropriate; we have a code of conduct here; move on to the next slide or get off the stage" worked very well for me. Using this turns an implied "that's inappropriate [in my opinion]" into a specific and much more powerful "that's inappropriate [according to our rules]".
- baudtack 13y ago
  Now I'm curious what conference.
- saraid216 13y ago
  Yup. This is exactly how rule of law works. A codified, criticized, and iterated set of demands is more useful than simply having a lone opinion in a mostly egalitarian setting precisely because your opinion isn't alone and you can prove it without asking anyone else to spend social capital.

desireco42 13y ago

This needed to be said and I think they said it beautifully. Nothing else.

k__ 13y ago

> Open Source Is Not A Warzone Like anyone has the right to make this claim ;))

mjg59 13y ago

Experiences vary. Responses to certain things depend on what's happened to you in the past. Some people's sexual harassment is someone else's harmless flirting, an entirely innocent joke may be an unintended racial slur. The same incident viewed by different people may be interpreted entirely differently. So yeah, it's great that there are women who feel safe in open source communities. It's wonderful that they've felt welcomed and unharassed. It would be entirely inappropriate to say that their experience is false or to suggest that they should object to behaviour that they feel is perfectly acceptable. But it's also entirely inappropriate to suggest that the experience of women who don't feel safe is somehow false or unwarranted. Changing the culture of our communities isn't a zero sum game. Making them more accessible shouldn't come at the cost of alienating women who are happy with how things are, but nor should those who are happy with how things are resist efforts to improve the happiness of others.

mnicole 13y ago
Yeah, I had a bit of a struggle with: > Yes, we encountered dicks in our lives. Yes, we have been assaulted in our lives, maybe in broad daylight, in public. Yes, we've been hit on tastelessly and repeatedly and we have been disgusted and annoyed and sometimes we have been near panic. Some of us have encountered violence. We've gotten grabbed our asses, gotten felt up our boobs, have been stared at, wolf whistles at us and had some drunken moron hang in front of us. Yes, some of us have hit the proverbial glass ceiling in our careers. > This is (a bad) part of our lives and yes, we judge social gathering and human encounters by how comfortable we are and how safe we feel and by their level of open or veiled dickishness. > But this is only ONE aspect of being a woman and we do not like to let this aspect dominate how we live and behave within the tech communities of our choice. The first paragraph acknowledges sexual and physical assaults/harassment, the second acknowledges that these shape our worldview, but the third implies that the victim is able to overcome the problem and let it slide off of their back. I think this is a bit if a dangerous message to send because it negates the unfortunate reality that it is always in the back of your mind and it insinuates that these encounters are one-offs, as opposed to childhood trauma or ongoing domestic issues (ignoring that a lot of the harassment faced these days is online and done by people who wouldn't at all think to do it in real-life). Also I'm not sure if "assault" is coming from someone's CoC, but: > We also like to keep the vocabulary appropriate: An "assault" is an act of violence, an agressive act to overpower a person. We do not feel being hit on tastelessly being an assault. A blunt stare into our cleavage is not an assault. Someone accidently touching us is not an assault. The typical french pseudo-kiss-hug is a cultural thing and not an assault. A hug might be a completely friendly act and not an assault - even if it might not be welcome. .. comes off more as "Hey guys, don't worry! We're not tight-asses about this stuff!" vs. "Assault is the wrong word to use, but these are still forms of harassment depending on the person and the action, so please know when and what is appropriate for whom."

CurtMonash 13y ago

Excellent. Puts the focus right where it belongs -- on principles, not on specific rules of behavior. The closest thing we really need to codes of conduct is consciousness-raising reminders of the sorts of things that can go wrong EVEN WITHOUT OVERT physically-aggressive behavior. The big three of those seem to be: 1. Tiresome references to objectification of women. E.g., booth babes, scantily clad women in marketing materials, etc. 2. Tiresome repetition of individually unobjectionable signs of attraction. What's fun at gender-balanced party and tolerable OCCASIONALLY in the workplace can be oppressive if it happens too often in a professional context. So if you're attracted to a professional colleague, you should do your best to refrain from showing it. 3. Bad conversational patterns. E.g., a woman who's interrupted in conversation may not power her way back the way many men would, so you should be more careful if you have an urge to interrupt. If you want, you can add in some kind of affirmative action concept to that as well.

solistice 13y ago
I have to disagree with "you should do your best to refrain from showing it". I believe that the attempted refraining is causing those tiresome sexual advances. I mean I know guys on both ends of the spectrum of flirting proficiency, and it's the guys at the "refrain" end of the spectrum that make situations akward when they try. Courtship is just as much a skill as programming is. And refraining from programming because you aren't good at it is never going to get you anywhere near good. When you then try to skript something together desperately, you will fail. On the other hand, the "experienced" rarely made conversations akward for them or the girl, in fact most girls they talked with enjoyed it. Things like attraction, they're low level things, and they'll leak out. And the more you strain to hold them in, the more akward it gets. I have yet to see a person that can convincingly mask off attraction towards another person. So don't simply try to force attraction out of the workplace, rather keep anything you do there as professional as you would with other things. Also for 3. : Go get it girl!
- CurtMonash 13y ago
  As in most non-trivial choices, context matters. I just emailed a woman that I know professionally that she is beautiful. More precisely, I replied to a photo of her lying in a hospital bed with her newborn daughter "Mother and daughter are both beautiful". I had little fear she would think I was hitting on her. :) But it took a situation that extreme for me to say that. Her job requires her to be nice to me, so I surely don't want her to regret that necessity. Back in the 1980s, when ever the most impressive of women -- e.g. Ann Winblad, Sandy Kurtzig or Esther Dyson -- felt they needed a flirtatious demeanor as part of their toolkit, I usually didn't respond ... unless, of course, we were dancing at a party. ;) But I recently saw Sandy again, made it clear she's looking awesome, and hugged her a couple of times; she's over 60 now, and at this point of her life I figured she probably wouldn't mind the attention. ;)

aidenn0 13y ago

> And let's face it: No real dick will be put off by a code of conduct helplessly condemning all kinds of unwelcome behavior - that's why they're dicks - but a huge portion of men will keep to themselves ridden by guilt because they're the ones actually thinking sensibly and will ask themselves about their own dickishness. The point of a code of conduct is not to stop dicks from being dicks. It is to remove any plausible defense. You can more easily ban dicks when you reduce ambiguities.

angersock 13y ago
beep boop must have non ambiguous social protocols beeep Usually zero-tolerance and codes of conduct are not enforced evenly, and serve only to lend bureaucratic weight to arbitrary (for better or worse) decisions.

lizzard 13y ago

I would love to sit down with the group of women who wrote this and get to know them. While I disagree with them that having a code of conduct is "helpless", and on many other points they make, there are plenty of ideas we share as well. I'm happy to see them taking a step towards feminist activism -- as they are in coming up with a collective statement with other women.

mindcrime 13y ago

I like the overall spirit of this article, but find this a bit puzzling: We also like to keep the vocabulary appropriate So we start off by using a slang term for a piece of male anatomy as a pejorative?

klez 13y ago
In this context it seems appropriate. During a conference or in a professional settings or in a church it wouldn't. Appropriate is a relative term.
pjscott 13y ago
Perhaps "accurate" would have been a more appropriate choice of word than "appropriate".

objhra 13y ago

Oh c'mon, like men haven't been insulted or attacked. Like men haven't met women who are complete dicks. Just because you're the weaker gender does not give you the right to assume that we are all shit and you are some cherry on top of a cake. No. This women-in-tech-is-hard stuff is so overplayed to the point of it being just plain stupid. What if every man who get's insulted by a woman who's a complete dick starts writing about the stuff you, women, do? But we don't. Why? Because we aren't that much of dicks as you, women, are. And go on, think that what I say is pure hatrid or sexism or whatever. It's not. You're statements may validate, but you're no innocent in this "war".

Yver 13y ago
Your comment gives me the impression that you have misread the article (or not read at all) or that you were replying to another comment. IOW, it seems you're reacting to something that's not there.
- objhra 13y ago
  I honestly didn't even want to read any further than "We feel the overwhelming majority of men we have to deal with". I mean, "men we have to DEAL with"?

petermelias 13y ago

The attitude of that letter is refreshingly positive and sensible. A nice change from the usual super-charged sexist attitudes one way or the other that usually only spark more polarized debate that loses sight of the bigger picture. The thing that frustrated me the most about the PyCon thing was how the keynote was just completely eclipsed by the incident. Barely anyone reporting even had the consideration to mention what the keynote was about-- only that it was interrupted by a tweetsplosion.

tudorconstantin 13y ago

I've been at several YAPC::EUs and I am quite surprised to hear that there are dickheads there. People with strong, vocal opinions? Definitely, but I personally love them the most - they bring colour to the events

smoyer 13y ago

Thank you! I'm a guy and it makes me uncomfortable even watching some guy make a tasteless pass at a random woman. And regardless of what people believe, friendship is possible (and a far better prelude to other things if both parties desire). As an aside, I'd hate to be named Richard after reading that posting.