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Embrace the pain. It's a good stimulus to avoid stagnation and improve your situation.
by nradov 29d ago
Embrace the pain. It's a good stimulus to avoid stagnation and improve your situation.
- boricj 29d agoGeneralities like this dismiss the lived experience of other people. You don't know the pain of others, especially what others hide from you.
- unrented7977 29d agoJust pull yourself up by your bootstraps, hit the bricks, poor people should just buy more money, etc etc.
- nradov 29d agoLife is hopeless, be more cynical, failure is inevitable, there's no point in trying, etc etc. Yawn.
- uric2 29d agoAh no. There's pain, and then there's pain that I would never wish on my worst enemy. The pain I suffer gets worse with every setback and affects my work life for extended periods of time. Past a certain point you need to weigh the risks and tradeoffs, and in my calculus, for my own survival, it swung in favor of no relationships. Everyone has a different strategy and I prescribe nothing, that is my own way