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It's all about tone. The original bad behavior is done without overt "bad tone" but if the response to it is spicy then the former is ignored and the latter is
by elktown 3mo ago
It's all about tone. The original bad behavior is done without overt "bad tone" but if the response to it is spicy then the former is ignored and the latter is condemned despite being of lesser severity.
I can buy that it can be good corporate politics to not upset the superficial crowd that will immediately lash out on tone, but I will not judge someone rightfully reacting on bad behavior that they've been on the receiving end of.
Also, I didn't say being rude is a sign of honesty, that's you extrapolating.
- orangedog 3mo agoYou can call it superficiality but there are just some of us who believe that treating people right is the core of this. You're viewing that as some kind of superficial virtue signaling but if we're not treating people with respect then there's not a point in doing any of this, it gets to the very thing that Kelley is complaining about.
- elktown 3mo ago[flagged]
- orangedog 3mo agoIt's not about kid gloves. There is a ways of reponing to this which isn't this ugly. That's part of being a leader.
- elktown 3mo agoI guess I don't value the stoic leadership ideal as much as you do.
- Tadpole9181 3mo agoWhen did Jarred say anything but kind things to Andrew?
- elktown 3mo agoThere are more ways to behave badly than to call someone bad words. If you’re being that literal.
- ai_critic 3mo agoOkay, then what did he do?
- Tadpole9181 3mo agoPlease, enumerate them.
- elktown 3mo ago[flagged]
- Tadpole9181 3mo agoSo you don't have any. And after reading all of Jarred's posts and responses you found that he repeatedly thanked Zig and said he respected Andrew but that, after donating over a hundred thousand dollars to their work, his project had different needs than before and needed to change stack? Incredible display of bad faith discussion. You should be ashamed.