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> negative feedback - and dismissive feedback - is something you need to be prepared OK. Let's RFM: first line = "Be kind. Don't be snarky. Converse curiously;
by whiplash451 3mo ago
> negative feedback - and dismissive feedback - is something you need to be prepared
OK. Let's RFM: first line = "Be kind. Don't be snarky. Converse curiously; don't cross-examine. Edit out swipes."
So, no, it's not HN-OK for rude & unfounded feedback to make it to the top comment.
Even if the website is "bad" (i.e. those 30 papers were never linked to Ilya etc.), the proper way of handling this is to call it out in a neutral way.
- handwarmers 3mo agofwiw for all the praise that dang & co get, they moderated this website into this state. there is a "blessed" way to break the rules and be a total asshole to people here, and there is the "other" way, that they punish relentlessly. we all have bad days, but HN's comments are just an exhausting cesspool of cynicism and cheap takes for the most part these days.
- whiplash451 3mo agodang does not scale. It’s on us to make this place how we want it to be. Every comment matters
- bartread 3mo agoI think you're misunderstanding me or over-interpreting what I've said. I'm not justifying or excusing the unkind behaviour, and I'm aware of the site terms on HN. What I'm saying is that in large online forums - regardless of terms of use - some people are unkind, and that it's a good idea to be prepared for that when you post something publicly.