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>Domestic violence is an obvious line to set is it? the example given for things implied to disallow are playful pinching/punching. Even the author's implied
by knollimar 7mo ago
>Domestic violence is an obvious line to set
is it? the example given for things implied to disallow are playful pinching/punching.
Even the author's implied choice of line is suspect here.
- malfist 7mo agoWhat is "playful punching"?
- maest 7mo agoI'll know it when I see it
- margalabargala 7mo agoNot sure if you're being genuine but a playful punch is absolutely a thing, example: https://m.youtube.com/shorts/_91jzDH4V5Q https://m.youtube.com/shorts/_91jzDH4V5Q
- recursive 7mo agoIf you think someone might be a DV risk that seems like a reasonable line as long as your expectations are clear.
- watwut 7mo ago> Ruben, Lou’s boyfriend, playfully pinches her, then playfully punches her, then seriously pinches her, then seriously punches her, and so on. Each time she convinces herself that her domestic abuse line wasn’t crossed, ultimately leading to her getting full-on abused. If I start by not liking playful pinches and said so, you should stop doing them. That is the initial situation. But in this (made up) story, she moves then line and tolerates them, because he is not stopping and she does not see it as a red flag.