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>After a breakup I started being more active again... Was it the changes or the breakup itself? Most men don't get "good" at dating until they become a certai

• kapep 7mo ago
  The breakup after years of relationship certainly was a big change in my live. I broke up but I don't think that made me jaded. I get what you mean though, I would say I got a bit more jaded after getting more confidence and that helps now. But that was long after I noticed increasing interest from women.
• jimbokun 7mo ago
  Is there a stereotype about newly divorced men being really good at dating? If anything I thought it was the opposite.
  • Jensson 7mo ago
    Divorced men have an easier time finding dates, yes. > If anything I thought it was the opposite. Think of it in another context, who do you think have an easier time getting a job, a guy with 10 years of experience that currently doesn't have a job or a guy that never had a job? It is possible the guy with 10 years of experience got fired for a good reason, but on average most people want the guy with experience. Men don't evaluate women for the same things, so it can be a bit hard to understand, but it makes perfect sense once you understand it. Rather it is weird that men don't value women with experience the way women do with men.