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Do you think that the people who dance like no one is watching or who love like they’ve never been hurt are on average happier or unhappier than the average per
by paulcole 8mo ago
Do you think that the people who dance like no one is watching or who love like they’ve never been hurt are on average happier or unhappier than the average person? Are they happier or unhappier than the people who dance like everyone is watching or who love like they’ve always been hurt?
- knollimar 8mo agoI feel like these are risks with a large penalty if it goes wrong but on average probably higher, no? Dancing more so than love
- paulcole 8mo agoWhat is the large penalty for these risks?
- knollimar 8mo agoI meant in comparison to the reward. Loving recklessly isn't much more deeply and could make you hurt significantly. Dancing confidently isn't rewarded compared to bimeinf embarrassed for dancing badlt.
- paulcole 8mo agoIt seems like you have really strongly held beliefs about these things that are based more in how you’d like the world to be than how it really is. Even if you think there is a small benefit to dancing confidently compared to dancing insecurely, what specifically is the big relative risk of dancing confidently. What will go wrong?