One interesting thing that happened when my father died was that I got his life story. It's not the same as getting it from him, of course I asked him question

One interesting thing that happened when my father died was that I got his life story. It's not the same as getting it from him, of course I asked him questions through the years. But when you talk to someone you've known since forever, you rarely get a summary. When he passed, his best friend that he'd known since the age of 4 wrote to me. He told me everything about their life together, why my dad made the choices he did, how things tied in with history (war, politics), and mentioned a bunch of other people I knew.