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The best guide I have ever seen is https://succeedsocially.com/ https://succeedsocially.com/ It’s so unbelievably straightforward and useful. It’s unfortunate

• PandaRider 1y ago
  It's not bad. Maybe 7/10. I read the page https://www.succeedsocially.com/morefun https://www.succeedsocially.com/morefun. Here's my initial impressions. Pros: it identified several important painpoints and give several decent examples. Cons: Being a truly fun person is all about reaction reaction reaction. Fun people react authentically (while censoring their ahole side because you don't want to be fun but unlikable), ridiculously (while reading the room), and intelligently (playing to the top of the crowd's intelligence).
  • SunlightEdge 1y ago
    Great comment - it feels very true
  • nicbou 1y ago
    Consider the intended audience though. This is for people who are lost and need perspective and concrete steps for improving. Compared to all the "fake it 'till you make it" or "just stop caring" type of advice, it's helpful.
  • amelius 1y ago
    > Fun people react authentically (while censoring their ahole side because you don't want to be fun but unlikable) But here you explain exactly what is difficult. It's like walking a tightrope and someone tells you not to fall to the left and by the way, also not to the right.
• zug_zug 1y ago
  Wow, after reading the various pages on this link for ~20m+ I have to agree this is one of the best resources I've ever encountered.