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If you do decide to wait longer, be aware that there are hilarious differences geographically. When we had our first kid in SF, the other dads pushing swings we

by zellyn 1y ago

If you do decide to wait longer, be aware that there are hilarious differences geographically. When we had our first kid in SF, the other dads pushing swings were around the same age as me (fortyish). Moving back to Georgia… oh my god, the parents of kids my second kid’s age were babies! (There are “graybeard dad” Facebook groups etc., but the average vibe is way different)

sixothree 1y ago
Crime rates in Georgia are higher. So there's that.
- NeutralCrane 1y ago
  On the flip side the average age of parents in Utah is extremely low and the crime rate is also below average. So it may be more nuanced than you would think.
  - insane_dreamer 1y ago
    confounding factor: Mormons
meindnoch 1y ago
>the parents of kids my second kid’s age were babies Babies can have kids?
- bombcar 1y ago
  A parent who’s forty with a newborn will feel that the 20-year old with a newborn is “babies havin’ babies” as Strong bad would say.
  - Melatonic 1y ago
    Strong Bad - now thats a throwback!
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Drunkfoowl 1y ago
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xattt 1y ago
Even regionally. My kid goes to an urban school where the majority of parents are those with at least an undergraduate degree, and are at least my age. Family friends have kids in a rural school with parents being those that haven’t moved 10 miles from the community where they grew up and small-town soap opera dynamics.