I think this is missing the point. I have been at the same level in organizations where people really cared what you thought. They ask, invite you to councils

I think this is missing the point. I have been at the same level in organizations where people really cared what you thought. They ask, invite you to councils, show you future plans. And I have had similar roles where I was shut out. The point is not whether you want to advance or not. Are you valued?