Is there some way to know the user who down voted here? I wouldn't presume that was the case. Many users here might have downvoted your parent comment because i

Is there some way to know the user who down voted here? I wouldn't presume that was the case. Many users here might have downvoted your parent comment because it was terse and appeared combative rather than contributing to the conversation. I have found on HN it is best to enrich one's questions to avoid this look. I also did not detect anything passive aggressive in the 'why not', it's a fair enough initial response (even kept light with a smiley face!) - the good will was further demonstrated by continuing with an actual explanation instead of a snarky comment. It's the nature of online communication that we need to take a step back and take in a number of added variables before we jump to conclusions.