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I'm not saying you're implying this, but I need to be the boring hall monitor to point out that while consensual submissive fantasies are extremely common there
by api 2y ago
I'm not saying you're implying this, but I need to be the boring hall monitor to point out that while consensual submissive fantasies are extremely common there is none -- zero -- overlap with actual non-consensual sexual assault which I'd venture to say nobody (to within a rounding error of zero) finds appealing.
It's kind of like the difference between watching a scary movie or visiting a haunted house attraction vs. actually being chased by a brutal crazed murderer.
- Spivak 2y agoI don't disagree which is why playing out a rape fantasy is generally called "consenting non-consent." There are rules, boundaries, safe words, lots of aftercare, just generally good communication all around is a necessary condition. Haunted House is actually such a good way of explaining it. I'm stealing that!