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> 20 years later, you realize you burned two precious decades accumulating money that, honestly, does not help you at all make sense or use of the next two. Ah
by dkarl 2y ago
> 20 years later, you realize you burned two precious decades accumulating money that, honestly, does not help you at all make sense or use of the next two.
Ah, but it does. Speaking as someone approaching fifty, you feel every penny. Everything about your financial situation weighs into your decision-making, makes different options possible or impossible. It changes which jobs you can take, and which jobs you can turn down. It affects how much time you can take between jobs. It affects how much energy you pour into keeping your job or chasing a promotion versus investing your energy in education or other things you find satisfying.
People worry that they will accidentally pursue money with such single-minded focus that they turn off every other part of their soul, and miss out on what they "really" want to do. But I don't think that's possible. Replace money with anything else: fame, family, intellectual achievement, hedonism. If you try to dedicate yourself 100% to one thing when something else is important to you, you'll hear the voice in the back of your head. You'll feel what it is, and if you ignore it then, that's on you.
If you don't hear that voice yet, lay down the foundation that will give you the freedom to follow it when you finally do.
- whiplash451 2y agoYou're absolutely right. I realize my comment could be understood in many various ways. My point was that, at some point, money has a negative effect on your career. Shooting for the top percentile of revenue can take you off track for life. But you are saying that having a few hundred thousands bucks when you hit 40-50 is a life-changer and you are absolutely right as well. Our point of views are not incompatible and were not captured by my first comment.
- ryandrake 2y agoYea, there is a huge distance between "saving enough money to retire comfortably" and "letting wealth accumulation dominate every decision you make." And, honestly, most people don't even get to the first one.
- eweise 2y agoIts easy to think you have too much money in your twenties. I used to save every other paycheck. But wait until you have a family and a mortgage. The money goes very quickly.