I completely agree with the concern. But it seems to me that promoting a standard of behavior requiring people to object to silly things that don't matter makes

I completely agree with the concern. But it seems to me that promoting a standard of behavior requiring people to object to silly things that don't matter makes it more likely, not less, that they'll end up complying with the things that do matter. "I'm not living up to this standard anyway, and I have what I think are good reasons for that, so is it really the right standard?"