When you talk to people who are successful in their personal lives, that's how they treat life goals. Sounds over-formal but that's life. 1. Get married 2. B

When you talk to people who are successful in their personal lives, that's how they treat life goals. Sounds over-formal but that's life. 1. Get married 2. Buy house (by 30) 3. Have kid 1 by 32, to allow 2 year birth spacing for X children etc. People like to be wishy-washy and romantic about finding partners, settling down, having kids... but the people who end up where they want to be are usually far more intentional about it.