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Seems like the author could do well to spend some of their millions on a therapist?

by gigatexal 2y ago

coldtea 2y ago
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- ChrisClark 2y ago
  Yes
- dgfitz 2y ago
  I tried for years, and came to the same conclusion. Years. 4 different therapists @ 1.5-2 years each. Therapy can, at best, help one identify issues and suggest ways to make improvements. When you know all the issues and can’t make changes, therapy doesn’t do much.
  - Niksko 2y ago
    Doesn't sound like the author has any idea what issues plague them, based on what I read. Lots of plausible sounding ideas in this thread, if a therapist helps them figure out which ones are accurate, money can (probably) help them make the changes.
  - philosopher1234 2y ago
    Everyone I’ve known to say they know all their issues has been blind to many obvious (externally) problems. I tried several different therapists until I tried psychoanalysis instead and it helped. That said, it’s true that many problems cannot be solved and must instead be grieved.
- weakfish 2y ago
  Well, it brought me out of crippling anxiety and depression by identifying what was holding me back, so, yes?
- rtpg 2y ago
  If you believe that there are "good" mindsets and "bad" mindsets (relative to what you want in life), and that it's possible to change one's mindset, it follows that having guidance can help there. Maybe you don't believe that a professional therapist can offer that guidance, of course.
- srpablo 2y ago
  It's made my life way, way better It's not a panacea, and the way people talk about it drives me crazy. There are many different modalities, with very different levels of effectiveness for any given person. CBT is awful for me, for example, and it's the most popular modality. I also did ketamine-assisted therapy and it absolutely changed my life. There are definitely people who won't get anything from it, but the reflexive "therapy is useless" is a weird thing to perform when it's obviously helped a ton of people. [1]: https://morepablo.com/2023/12/therapy-and-wellness.html https://morepablo.com/2023/12/therapy-and-wellness.html
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- Aeolun 2y ago
  It certainly did for me. Practically the first thing my therapist said to me was exactly what he said to someone else before, since apparently it really helped the first person. The next session was my last, when I told him I had figured out the issue. I don't even know what he said any more, but I haven't had that particular kind of depression recur for like 6 years now. Gives no guarantees for your own experience of course, just wanted to give a different perspective.
- chipgap98 2y ago
  Therapy has been absolutely life changing for me. It has helped me manage my anxiety and build a life I’m happy with

Seems like the author could do well to spend some of their millions on a therapist?

coldtea 2y ago

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ChrisClark 2y ago
Yes
dgfitz 2y ago
I tried for years, and came to the same conclusion. Years. 4 different therapists @ 1.5-2 years each. Therapy can, at best, help one identify issues and suggest ways to make improvements. When you know all the issues and can’t make changes, therapy doesn’t do much.
- Niksko 2y ago
  Doesn't sound like the author has any idea what issues plague them, based on what I read. Lots of plausible sounding ideas in this thread, if a therapist helps them figure out which ones are accurate, money can (probably) help them make the changes.
- philosopher1234 2y ago
  Everyone I’ve known to say they know all their issues has been blind to many obvious (externally) problems. I tried several different therapists until I tried psychoanalysis instead and it helped. That said, it’s true that many problems cannot be solved and must instead be grieved.
weakfish 2y ago
Well, it brought me out of crippling anxiety and depression by identifying what was holding me back, so, yes?
rtpg 2y ago
If you believe that there are "good" mindsets and "bad" mindsets (relative to what you want in life), and that it's possible to change one's mindset, it follows that having guidance can help there. Maybe you don't believe that a professional therapist can offer that guidance, of course.
srpablo 2y ago
It's made my life way, way better It's not a panacea, and the way people talk about it drives me crazy. There are many different modalities, with very different levels of effectiveness for any given person. CBT is awful for me, for example, and it's the most popular modality. I also did ketamine-assisted therapy and it absolutely changed my life. There are definitely people who won't get anything from it, but the reflexive "therapy is useless" is a weird thing to perform when it's obviously helped a ton of people. [1]: https://morepablo.com/2023/12/therapy-and-wellness.html https://morepablo.com/2023/12/therapy-and-wellness.html
- deleted 2y ago
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Aeolun 2y ago
It certainly did for me. Practically the first thing my therapist said to me was exactly what he said to someone else before, since apparently it really helped the first person. The next session was my last, when I told him I had figured out the issue. I don't even know what he said any more, but I haven't had that particular kind of depression recur for like 6 years now. Gives no guarantees for your own experience of course, just wanted to give a different perspective.
chipgap98 2y ago
Therapy has been absolutely life changing for me. It has helped me manage my anxiety and build a life I’m happy with