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>learn to accept that that's life. Yeah, harassment is is part of life. Just accept it, right!? WTF? How low should our standards as a society be!?
by boplicity 2y ago
>learn to accept that that's life.
Yeah, harassment is is part of life. Just accept it, right!?
WTF? How low should our standards as a society be!?
- kupopuffs 2y agoI'm sure there's a line somewhere where "nice watch" or "you're better looking than the guy before" are acceptable
- andyp-kw 2y agoAs a man who lived outside western society for many years, I often received comments about my looks and mannerisms. Did I cry like a baby, no. I made jokes about their looks and mannerisms. It's called banter. There is a line that should not be crossed, but someone making one off comments on the out of the ordinary shouldn't be classed as harassment.
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- yjniesen 2y ago[dead]
- fennecbutt 2y agoThat's your perspective though. Others' perspective is that it is a form of harassment, and reactions like yours are toxic masculinity, a feminist catch phrase, of ignoring our issues and feelings. Yet for all the hate for toxic masculinity, as a gay guy all I see is that straight guys are still forced to uphold those traits in a bizarre way. Yes, be violent she says now, but only to those who insult me.
- marcellus23 2y agoNo, receiving comments like "you're better looking than the guy before" is a part of life. Using the term "harassment", which is vague enough to cover both innocuous comments like that, and actually creepy disgusting stuff, is an easy way to create a strawman.