This (spending+net worth) is easier to get a handle on if you don't have kids, but as soon as I had a kid, the exact amount of money I really needed for full re

This (spending+net worth) is easier to get a handle on if you don't have kids, but as soon as I had a kid, the exact amount of money I really needed for full retirement with a degree of comfort for my family became a lot harder to track. As they get older, it should become easier, but for now my spending skyrocketed compared to pre-kid.