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I've lived a life in both shoes, it's not worse for men. Sorry, I'm sure it feels this way some times, but unless you've lived a life in both shoes, it's not co

I've lived a life in both shoes, it's not worse for men. Sorry, I'm sure it feels this way some times, but unless you've lived a life in both shoes, it's not coming from a place of experience.

Steven420 2y ago
Could you give us some more details?
- kelseyfrog 2y ago
  I transitioned several years ago. They are two different worlds.
anonfordays 2y ago
>I've lived a life in both shoes No you haven't. >but unless you've lived a life in both shoes Which isn't possible. Just like it's not possible to live life as a goldfish, but we have great understanding of how goldfish live. >it's not worse for men All statistics on violent crime, deaths due to crime, deaths due to workplace violence, deaths due to workplace accidents, homelessness, etc. all show that men are the primary victims. >it's not coming from a place of experience. Anecdotal evidence is meaningless at population scale. Luckily we have population statistics that provide us the objective truth.
- kelseyfrog 2y ago
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- aidou 2y ago
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  - kelseyfrog 2y ago
    I have years of personal experience being female. It's two different worlds. Happy to take any questions.
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    - aidou 2y ago
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      - kelseyfrog 2y ago
        No, sorry. I'm definitionally and descriptively female. No one has more authority over who I am than me. Just as you have authority over who you are. I didn't say I was an authority on the female experience; no one is. I am an authority on my own personal experience as female. I'd rather not turn this into a definitions discussion as a way to discredit my experience. I've interacted with hundreds of people who perceive and treat me based on what they and I believe me to be. There is no one outside of myself that can draw a line and say that doesn't count. It really feels like this is turning into a cross-examination rather than curious conversation.
        aidou 2y ago
        May I ask how you came to believe you are female? Most transwomen make the distinction between the reality of their sex (male) and what they perceive to be their gender (woman), so I'm curious as to why you've decided to call yourself female.
        kelseyfrog 2y ago
        I've given myself permission to be my own ontological authority. We could unpack how people tend to view ontological relationships and their propensity to leave reification unexamined. But I believe I'm an active participant in creating my reality and choose to do so for myself as I see fit.

I've lived a life in both shoes, it's not worse for men. Sorry, I'm sure it feels this way some times, but unless you've lived a life in both shoes, it's not coming from a place of experience.

Steven420 2y ago

Could you give us some more details?

kelseyfrog 2y ago
I transitioned several years ago. They are two different worlds.

anonfordays 2y ago

>I've lived a life in both shoes No you haven't. >but unless you've lived a life in both shoes Which isn't possible. Just like it's not possible to live life as a goldfish, but we have great understanding of how goldfish live. >it's not worse for men All statistics on violent crime, deaths due to crime, deaths due to workplace violence, deaths due to workplace accidents, homelessness, etc. all show that men are the primary victims. >it's not coming from a place of experience. Anecdotal evidence is meaningless at population scale. Luckily we have population statistics that provide us the objective truth.

kelseyfrog 2y ago
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aidou 2y ago
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- kelseyfrog 2y ago
  I have years of personal experience being female. It's two different worlds. Happy to take any questions.
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  - aidou 2y ago
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    - kelseyfrog 2y ago
      No, sorry. I'm definitionally and descriptively female. No one has more authority over who I am than me. Just as you have authority over who you are. I didn't say I was an authority on the female experience; no one is. I am an authority on my own personal experience as female. I'd rather not turn this into a definitions discussion as a way to discredit my experience. I've interacted with hundreds of people who perceive and treat me based on what they and I believe me to be. There is no one outside of myself that can draw a line and say that doesn't count. It really feels like this is turning into a cross-examination rather than curious conversation.
      - aidou 2y ago
        May I ask how you came to believe you are female? Most transwomen make the distinction between the reality of their sex (male) and what they perceive to be their gender (woman), so I'm curious as to why you've decided to call yourself female.
        kelseyfrog 2y ago
        I've given myself permission to be my own ontological authority. We could unpack how people tend to view ontological relationships and their propensity to leave reification unexamined. But I believe I'm an active participant in creating my reality and choose to do so for myself as I see fit.