As someone who leans introvert who has worked to be more extroverted over many years I think there are some merits of your hypothesis. I'm not really afraid of

As someone who leans introvert who has worked to be more extroverted over many years I think there are some merits of your hypothesis. I'm not really afraid of social consequences, but when I speak I really want to be correct and precise. What I have found in many conversations is that correct and precise is not the purpose. People want to chat and feel like they came to some group understanding as a group. So instead of stating positions and quickly getting to the end result, it's a long dance. It's fine, but as you mention, it's very tiring to me. Something I have not figured out how to solve over the years.