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I know. I don't care. I don't want a partner who to all observers (myself included) appears to be trying to cheat. My bare minimum relationship standard is a p
by itishappy 2y ago
I know. I don't care. I don't want a partner who to all observers (myself included) appears to be trying to cheat.
My bare minimum relationship standard is a partner who does neither, and I hold myself to the same standard.
- taylodl 2y agoFlirting is healthy and isn't even remotely cheating. There's also a difference between flirting and trying to pick somebody up. I'm afraid your thinking is why so many marriages are failing today.
- baobabKoodaa 2y agoI strongly agree with you, but I want to add that each relationship is different and people have the freedom to set their boundaries as they wish (they as in plural; the people who are in the same relationship decide together where the boundaries are). What I'm trying to say is, it's okay if the person you are responding to wants more strict boundaries than the rest of us. If flirting is cheating to them, then it is and that's that.
- taylodl 2y agoI'll concede that point. I guess I just don't understand why people are so possessive of their spouses and won't let them live a little.