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> most “non-Japanese” looking people are tourists > therefore, you will probably be treated as one, even if aren’t Myself and a couple friends visited Jap

by donatj 2y ago

> most “non-Japanese” looking people are tourists > therefore, you will probably be treated as one, even if aren’t Myself and a couple friends visited Japan for a couple weeks in 2008. On a trip to Osaka, one of my friends was approached by a gaggle of school girls. It was “speak to a foreigner day” at their school, and apparently of our group, the lone female seemed the most approachable. They asked her a series of questions about where she was from and her life in very basic English and took furious notes. I can’t imagine telling a class in even the safest parts of the United States “Go wander the streets and interview a stranger you suspect to be foreign”, for a number of reasons. The other thing I want to note is just that you get a lot of leeway as a foreigner in Japan. We’d gotten on a train unknowingly that our JR pass didn’t cover, but figured it out on the train. Well right as we get off, the ticket inspector is there inspecting tickets. We feign ignorance and show him our JR passes, he patiently writes something like ¥500 on a piece of paper and shows us, we pay it. No anger is expressed, just more of a “silly foreigners” vibe.

Trow839rn 2y ago
> 2008 A lot has changed. Foreigners no longer have this "superiority". > telling a class in even the safest parts of the United States It is just histeria, look at recent trend of "men vs bear in forest" . Many parts of US are totally safe, the worst part are dogs, car accidents and voluntary drug ingestion!
- darkwater 2y ago
  > A lot has changed. Foreigners no longer have this "superiority". It's still a long ago (2015 in my case) but it happened the exact same thing in Nara to my wife and me.
- HDThoreaun 2y ago
  Its not just about danger. Americans would be insulted if a kid asked them if they were a foreigner, theres not an easy way to tell.
- yongjik 2y ago
  Homicide rate of Japan is about 0.2 per 100,000 people. According to Washington Post [1], the US police killed 1,162 people in 2023, which is about 0.3 per every 100,000 Americans. I.e., an American is more likely to be killed by a cop than a Japanese person is likely to be killed by a murderer. [1] https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/investigations/police-shootings-database/ https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/investigations/polic...
jhbadger 2y ago
>I can’t imagine telling a class in even the safest parts of the United States “Go wander the streets and interview a stranger you suspect to be foreign” In the US of course it isn't even just the overblown "stranger danger" hysteria of school children speaking to people they don't know but identifying "foreigners" due to the greater ethnic diversity in the US. And people get (justifiably) offended when asked "where are you from?" especially if they were born here and just happen to be of non-European descent.
- eulgro 2y ago
  > And people get (justifiably) offended when asked "where are you from?" Why is it justifiable? Is curiosity an offense?
  - bojan 2y ago
    Because it implies non-belonging. The question self means that the conclusion is already made that the asked person is not "from here".
    - jajko 2y ago
      That is pretty messed up. There can be gazillion good reasons for somebody to stick out, or somebody else to just asking. People getting easily offended and taking such benign question very personally have usually some deeper underlying untackled issues in their lives.
      - pjc50 2y ago
        > usually some deeper underlying untackled issues in their lives. Usually being fed up with asked "where are you really from?" with the implication "go back there" lots and lots of times in their lives.
        galangalalgol 2y ago
        It never even occurred to me people might be offended by that. I love stories of different places and foods, and I'm fascinated by all the permutations of accents that occur. I'm simultaneously mildly angered by people being offended by such a thing, and that others trained them to be that way.
surgical_fire 2y ago
> We feign ignorance and show him our JR passes, he patiently writes something like ¥500 on a piece of paper and shows us, we pay it. No anger is expressed, just more of a “silly foreigners” vibe. That was my experience traveling around Japan. There's an interesting caveat to it. Back when I studied Japanese, I had a Japanese teacher. But she never lived in Japan - she was born of Japanese parents living abroad. Anyway, she used to tell me that for her, visiting Japan was a lot less welcoming, because they cut no slack to her. She looks Japanese, sounds Japanese, so everyone expected her to be very mindful of all social norms, and would be harsh to her whenever she made a faux-pas.
- rayiner 2y ago
  I had that exact same conversation with a Japanese American who was raised in the Bay Area but moved to Tokyo in his 30s. “You get the gaijin pass,” he told me, “I don’t.”
  - brabel 2y ago
    I don't get it... would they've preferred to be treated as foreigners despite looking and speaking like a local? How would that work?
    - skeaker 2y ago
      It sounds like they would, as they have about the same level of familiarity with local norms as an immigrant or a tourist would be aren't treated with the same leeway.
    - smugma 2y ago
      I have a couple of Japanese friends who live in the US but goes back to Japan regularly (1-2 times a year). They love Japan and have kept their Japanese citizenship, but all the rules and expectations were overbearing, so for them there are a lot of pros and cons to the two countries. And they call out that for foreigners, they get to see many of the pros but fewer of the cons.

by donatj 2y ago

Trow839rn 2y ago

> 2008 A lot has changed. Foreigners no longer have this "superiority". > telling a class in even the safest parts of the United States It is just histeria, look at recent trend of "men vs bear in forest" . Many parts of US are totally safe, the worst part are dogs, car accidents and voluntary drug ingestion!

darkwater 2y ago
> A lot has changed. Foreigners no longer have this "superiority". It's still a long ago (2015 in my case) but it happened the exact same thing in Nara to my wife and me.
HDThoreaun 2y ago
Its not just about danger. Americans would be insulted if a kid asked them if they were a foreigner, theres not an easy way to tell.
yongjik 2y ago
Homicide rate of Japan is about 0.2 per 100,000 people. According to Washington Post [1], the US police killed 1,162 people in 2023, which is about 0.3 per every 100,000 Americans. I.e., an American is more likely to be killed by a cop than a Japanese person is likely to be killed by a murderer. [1] https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/investigations/police-shootings-database/ https://www.washingtonpost.com/graphics/investigations/polic...

jhbadger 2y ago

>I can’t imagine telling a class in even the safest parts of the United States “Go wander the streets and interview a stranger you suspect to be foreign” In the US of course it isn't even just the overblown "stranger danger" hysteria of school children speaking to people they don't know but identifying "foreigners" due to the greater ethnic diversity in the US. And people get (justifiably) offended when asked "where are you from?" especially if they were born here and just happen to be of non-European descent.

eulgro 2y ago
> And people get (justifiably) offended when asked "where are you from?" Why is it justifiable? Is curiosity an offense?
- bojan 2y ago
  Because it implies non-belonging. The question self means that the conclusion is already made that the asked person is not "from here".
  - jajko 2y ago
    That is pretty messed up. There can be gazillion good reasons for somebody to stick out, or somebody else to just asking. People getting easily offended and taking such benign question very personally have usually some deeper underlying untackled issues in their lives.
    - pjc50 2y ago
      > usually some deeper underlying untackled issues in their lives. Usually being fed up with asked "where are you really from?" with the implication "go back there" lots and lots of times in their lives.
      - galangalalgol 2y ago
        It never even occurred to me people might be offended by that. I love stories of different places and foods, and I'm fascinated by all the permutations of accents that occur. I'm simultaneously mildly angered by people being offended by such a thing, and that others trained them to be that way.

surgical_fire 2y ago

> We feign ignorance and show him our JR passes, he patiently writes something like ¥500 on a piece of paper and shows us, we pay it. No anger is expressed, just more of a “silly foreigners” vibe. That was my experience traveling around Japan. There's an interesting caveat to it. Back when I studied Japanese, I had a Japanese teacher. But she never lived in Japan - she was born of Japanese parents living abroad. Anyway, she used to tell me that for her, visiting Japan was a lot less welcoming, because they cut no slack to her. She looks Japanese, sounds Japanese, so everyone expected her to be very mindful of all social norms, and would be harsh to her whenever she made a faux-pas.

rayiner 2y ago
I had that exact same conversation with a Japanese American who was raised in the Bay Area but moved to Tokyo in his 30s. “You get the gaijin pass,” he told me, “I don’t.”
- brabel 2y ago
  I don't get it... would they've preferred to be treated as foreigners despite looking and speaking like a local? How would that work?
  - skeaker 2y ago
    It sounds like they would, as they have about the same level of familiarity with local norms as an immigrant or a tourist would be aren't treated with the same leeway.
  - smugma 2y ago
    I have a couple of Japanese friends who live in the US but goes back to Japan regularly (1-2 times a year). They love Japan and have kept their Japanese citizenship, but all the rules and expectations were overbearing, so for them there are a lot of pros and cons to the two countries. And they call out that for foreigners, they get to see many of the pros but fewer of the cons.