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Would you take it if it means a marriage breakup and illness?
by ipaddr 2y ago
Would you take it if it means a marriage breakup and illness?
- giantg2 2y agoSure, those things are common in many jobs that pay much less. Many marriages can survive a year or two of hardship. If they can't, then perhaps it's not a good marriage and it will fall apart anyways at the next major event. Illnesses happen all the time, but I assume you mean stress-related. But there are many stressful jobs that pay much less and result in injury or disability.
- mvkel 2y ago"A healthy man wants a thousand things, a sick man only wants one." AirPods.
- macintux 2y agoI think if a marriage breaks up after 2 years of one partner working 80+ hours a week to make enough money to have reasonable financial stability for the rest of their lives, the marriage probably had other issues. Illness, well, that's a tougher call.
- sandspar 2y agoOf course 2 years of stress can lead to otherwise-good marriages breaking up. Didn't you know happy couples who divorced during COVID lockdowns? It was common.
- giantg2 2y agoTo me, those seem like fragile marriages. If it wasn't covid, then it'd be an illness or disability. If covid unearthed ideological differences, then it's likely that would have surfaced during other poticial events. If it was the financial hardship, that may have struck at another time. It's not that 2 years of stress can't destroy a marriage, it's just that it tends to destroy the weak ones. I also didn't know any couples to divorce during lockdown.
- macintux 2y agoSure. I’m just arguing that “Here’s an opportunity to sacrifice for 2 years and put ourselves on a solid financial footing” is different from “the world is collapsing and we have to make the best of it”.