I think another important aspect, another side of the same coin, of this is lack of boredom. If you're not bored you don't take as much initiative towards alter

I think another important aspect, another side of the same coin, of this is lack of boredom. If you're not bored you don't take as much initiative towards alternatives. It would be a simple problem if it was just about your own boredom but you have to convince your friends and those that would otherwise start stuff irl to be bored at the same time as well. And you can't coordinate properly because all coordination happens through the attention-stealing-machine.