That cannot be over-stated enough. I learned my communication skills in the military while building my software career. Those worlds are so incredibly differe

That cannot be over-stated enough. I learned my communication skills in the military while building my software career. Those worlds are so incredibly different that I have spent most of my professional life lost. On one hand my expectations for excellence in software are alien to my peers who just want to complete a JIRA task by any means possible. Yes, it is possible to deliver superior results for an entire day's effort in about 2 hours provided you aren't framed by all kinds of institutional roadblocks and unnecessary abstractions. I am scared to death to actually communicate my opinions regarding software because people tend to whine about how hard life is. For this reason I have abandoned my JavaScript career. Then on the military side I have to unlearn the high agreeableness that is so necessary for not getting fired in software. By high agreeableness I mean keeping your opinions to yourself, not voicing concerns, treating everything with kid gloves, and making everything as easy as possible. The military side is a much safer environment that expects brutal honesty. Nobody there believes themselves to be god's gift to the universe and they are always in a learning mode, which means they are coach-able and will not whine about corrections and mentorship.