2 ms·That's level 1, making it about yourself :)by mvkel 3y agoThat's level 1, making it about yourself :)kandel 3y agoHow is it? It's a direct help.mvkel 3y agoBecause the point is to listen, not solve problems. If you told me "ugh today was a really hard day at work" and I said "why don't you quit? then you wouldn't have hard days at work anymore!" would you feel heard?