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I'd argue this is true of a lot of cities where you're likely to bump into anyone, depending on how narrow your scope is of what one considers interesting. Also
by brailsafe 3y ago
I'd argue this is true of a lot of cities where you're likely to bump into anyone, depending on how narrow your scope is of what one considers interesting. Also true of probably most universities if they're doing anything right.
The problem with some particularly uptight places is that people aren't always open to chatting (or maybe under strict NDA), and you want to find a place on that nice area of the venn diagram where you actually do bump into and communicate with new and stimulating people.
- bluGill 3y agoEverybody is interesting if you get talking to them. You just think the guy who collects your trash is uninteresting and never talk to him (or do you?). Sure not everyone has the same background, and so they are interesting in different ways, but they are all interesting.
- passion__desire 3y agoInterests must align. People must know common jargon which convey high density information faster. I would like to have positive ROI on the conversations that I have.
- matwood 3y ago> I would like to have positive ROI on the conversations that I have. You must be fun at parties.
- operatingthetan 3y agoI usually cringe when people make this quip but it might be the first time I've seen it used effectively.
- brailsafe 3y ago> I would like to have positive ROI on the conversations that I have. Seems pretty hollow and transactional to me. > Interests must align. That's part of the dice roll. Sometimes interests do align, sometimes they don't, but someone looking for ROI is easily spotted and ran away from. Chemistry and common ground are a matter of luck.
- boredtofears 3y agoHow tiresome
- devmor 3y agoHaving a conversation with someone who provides a perspective or experience I do not have is automatically a positive ROI in my book.
- 123pie123 3y agosome of my best conversations - that I still remember many many years from them - are from people who have nothing in common to me. some of them made me question my reality that changed my life, something you may want to try. Even keeping a conversation going that you think is not going well,can be a really good skill to have
- brailsafe 3y agoThis is exactly what I meant, but even beyond relatively common jobs, if you're likely enough to bump into open people, there's a good chance some of them will be doing more niche interesting things too
- genghisjahn 3y agoI’m in Philly and about 20 years ago I sat next to an old man at a dinner for something. Neither of us wanted to be there. We talked, found out we both did tech things. I asked him what he worked on and he said “well back in the day I helped build ENIAC.” I was blown away. Had a great talk.
- brailsafe 3y agoThese are the moments in life to cherish. As Ferris Bueller once said "Life moves fast, if you don't stop to look around once in a while, you might miss it". Incidentally, one of the scariest things about the volatility in the housing market and in my (lack of) career, is that I may at some point be forced to abandon the neighborhood and city in which I've adopted as my home and in which I've befriended many of these random delightful people of all ages, and they might have to too. They're my community, I see them at the gym, the coffee shop, walking down the street, or at the park. A 1 bedroom condo starts at around $650k CAD, and most of the people here who haven't already owned something for a while depend on renting basements.