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If you can only talk about your own niche interests, then you aren't as interesting as you think you are
by freejazz 3y ago
If you can only talk about your own niche interests, then you aren't as interesting as you think you are
- doublerabbit 3y agoI'm ever happy to talk about many things and happy to listen to anyone. That's not the problem. It's not talking, it's more in generalities of what I enjoy is what is the niche. One story is that I was in Canada recently and was talking to a bloke on the bench listening to how he was kicked out and someone cheated on his wife. Although, whether to believe these stories is another thing. Sometimes people just want to be herd.
- freejazz 3y agoIf you can relate to others, how is having niche interests a relationship problem for you?
- doublerabbit 3y agoBecause those who I meet don't want to share the same interests as me. The relationship isn't the problem. The meeting is.
- freejazz 3y agoWhy do you expect people who you meet, who you are not in a relationship with, to share your interests? You don't need to share interests to talk about them, as you already pointed out. I remain confused by you and your alleged problem.