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Or they have borderline personality disorder and don't realise they're manipulating and hurting people :/ EDIT: So just to clarify since I think there's a disc

by danmur 3y ago

Or they have borderline personality disorder and don't realise they're manipulating and hurting people :/ EDIT: So just to clarify since I think there's a disconnect between what I was saying and what people are hearing, I was talking about myself here. And I am a dude. People are complicated and our brains can go into a tailspin for lots of reasons. Like k8s only less complex and with less YAML.

newsclues 3y ago
Do you assume the same of women who don’t have sex?
- danmur 3y ago
  I assume that some women who don't have sex suffer from BPD, yes. I can't recall ever thinking that about someone on an individual basis.
  - newsclues 3y ago
    Do you think there are also BPD women who do have sex and manipulate others and cause harm? Do you think there is a difference between men and women in these situations?
    - danmur 3y ago
      Do you want to ask something in particular or is this just a long and annoying questionnaire? :)
geraldhh 3y ago
yea, have met a lot of women meeting that definition
Mutttttioi 3y ago
It would be interesting to learn more about what type of people become incels I do belive that most are 'just' normal humans who haven't gotten the proper feedback system in their lives which also implies that the incel crisis is not necessarily a mental health issue but a social issue. It doesnt' make it easier of course if people with borderline personality disorder and others are also affected and potentially also take over those type of groups in a form or push them in particular directions.
- geraldhh 3y ago
  > I do belive that most are 'just' normal humans who haven't gotten the proper feedback system in their lives which also implies that the incel crisis is not necessarily a mental health issue but a social issue. probably both plus a bit of overrepresentation due to (social) media economics

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Or they have borderline personality disorder and don't realise they're manipulating and hurting people :/ EDIT: So just to clarify since I think there's a disc

by danmur 3y ago

newsclues 3y ago
Do you assume the same of women who don’t have sex?
- danmur 3y ago
  I assume that some women who don't have sex suffer from BPD, yes. I can't recall ever thinking that about someone on an individual basis.
  - newsclues 3y ago
    Do you think there are also BPD women who do have sex and manipulate others and cause harm? Do you think there is a difference between men and women in these situations?
    - danmur 3y ago
      Do you want to ask something in particular or is this just a long and annoying questionnaire? :)
geraldhh 3y ago
yea, have met a lot of women meeting that definition
Mutttttioi 3y ago
It would be interesting to learn more about what type of people become incels I do belive that most are 'just' normal humans who haven't gotten the proper feedback system in their lives which also implies that the incel crisis is not necessarily a mental health issue but a social issue. It doesnt' make it easier of course if people with borderline personality disorder and others are also affected and potentially also take over those type of groups in a form or push them in particular directions.
- geraldhh 3y ago
  > I do belive that most are 'just' normal humans who haven't gotten the proper feedback system in their lives which also implies that the incel crisis is not necessarily a mental health issue but a social issue. probably both plus a bit of overrepresentation due to (social) media economics