That's what this adds up to. > If they're doing it safely, more power to them. > With partners of similar ages? That's their business. Kids mature at differen

That's what this adds up to. > If they're doing it safely, more power to them. > With partners of similar ages? That's their business. Kids mature at different rates. So about what age does this not apply then? You need another rule otherwise it sounds like you see no problem with two 9 year olds having sex if they're using contraception. Please keep in mind I initially assumed you had some specific age range in mind (which surely wouldn't include 9 year olds). It was your response to that which makes it sound like there is no lower limit ("With partners of similar ages? That's their business. Kids mature at different rates. ."). Regardless, it sounds like we at least agree that there is some age at which kids are too young and should be abstinent.