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Ah you beat me to it. Layoffs like this mitigate the drama for sure, but also mitigates legal liability, which just goes to show you; you're a fool to remain lo
by el-dude-arino 3y ago
Ah you beat me to it. Layoffs like this mitigate the drama for sure, but also mitigates legal liability, which just goes to show you; you're a fool to remain loyal to the company. A lot of the people fired were rated highly in their performance reviews, I'm sure. But if you're too ambitious or criticized the boss for making a mistake or just looked at him wrong... you're gone.
My advice:
- Always be interviewing
- Never stay somewhere longer than 2-4 years
- Don't take on extra work or go above and beyond
- Try to work two or more remote jobs
- Kiss your boss' ass
- Never take a stand on anything
- jen729w 3y ago> Try to work two or more remote jobs What, routinely? No.
- el-dude-arino 3y agoIt's not as hard as you think, especially if you do contract work on the side while you have a full time job.
- jen729w 3y agoSo now you have three jobs? You work too much.
- mock-possum 3y agoHow much money do you need?
- el-dude-arino 3y agoEnough to tell my boss to get f*cked
- runnr_az 3y agoYou’re likely mistaken about the value they’re contributing. Corporate America can be a heartless place, for sure, but you’d be surprised how hard it is to straight up fire underperforming white collar workers.
- Loughla 3y agoThe difficulty in firing is directly related to how risk averse (lawsuit averse) HR is.
- mynameisnoone 3y agoThere is no heart or soul, rhyme or reason in it. It's all about who's friends with who, and each particular cult of marketing of apparent utility.
- id00 3y ago> Never take a stand on anything "If you stand for nothing, Burr, what'll you fall for?" (c)
- HeWhoLurksLate 3y agoagree, I'd rather be a professional with a shorter lifespan than a henchman/goon that can survive anything
- refulgentis 3y agoThis is a little too jaded, but in all seriousness younger me, everything except the 2+ remote jobs is true. Always ask yourself _does my manager want this, or do I think my manager will want this when I'm done with it?_. Also, you never take a stand on anything in the sense that _you never want to be the only person in the room advocating for something longer than a couple sentences_. Adults are just as nasty as middle schoolers, but to your face, they won't say a thing. They are old enough to have learned its easy and feels good to shit on other people, and it is hard and feels bad to have a Discussion(tm).
- eutropia 3y agoNah. Hold yourself and those around you to high standards and you’ll develop a keen sense for when people aren’t doing the same. That helps you avoid the shitty companies and bosses that make these coping mechanisms seem necessary.
- michaelcampbell 3y agoThe "48 laws of power" gets a lot of (perhaps well deserved) shade, but there are some insights there, if your post is any indication.
- nunez 3y agoMichael Hobbes and Peter Shamshiri did a really interesting deep dive into this book and its author in their podcast "If Books Could Kill". Recommended listening. TL;DR: It is theorized that the author (Robert Greene) studied classics and wanted to write a book about influential leaders throughout history, but the only way to get such a book green-lit by a publisher was to wrap the history around a "self-help for men" context, which naturally gravitates towards building empires and making more money. This is why, like many self-help books, the advice is dubious, but unlike almost all self-help books, the historical anecdotes are extremely correct.
- aardvark179 3y agoThis feels like a self fulfilling thing. You get laid off, so you start following these rules and you are even more likely to get laid off. I can honestly say I not only don’t follow these rules, I think I follow almost their direct opposite, and despite many around me being laid off I never have been even when voluntary redundancy was being offered and applying for it, I have more than enough money to walk away from a job if I want to. If you find every workplace so hateful that you must follow these rules have you considered that the problem might actually be you?
- el-dude-arino 3y agoI'm glad you've found fulfilling places to work, but I think you might have a bit of survivorship-bias.
- throwaway743 3y agoYeah, your comment above really hit home for me. Had the exact experience and younger me could've used that advice. Things are good now, but yeah