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> Has anyone ever tried to sell an engagement or wedding ring with diamonds? You get cents on the dollar. Does that mean you can buy one second-hand at a low p
by SenAnder 3y ago
> Has anyone ever tried to sell an engagement or wedding ring with diamonds? You get cents on the dollar.
Does that mean you can buy one second-hand at a low price, and avoid the inflated market entirely?
- sen 3y agoYes, we got used 1920s (or 40s, I forget which) diamond matching (engagement/wedding) rings from a local jewellery market for ~5% of the cost of the equivalent spec ring if it were new. It was in immaculate condition and my wife adores them still 15 years later.
- Tiffanyzed 3y ago[dead]
- huytersd 3y agoThere’s specifically no market for them somehow. I tried to look but the only places I could found that sold them was at pawn shops.
- Loughla 3y agoHonestly, second hand diamond and other gemstone jewelry seems like such a missed opportunity. I feel like people would go for it, with the new focus on sustainability and what-not. I wonder why that's not a thing?
- subpixel 3y agoThe majority of people who understand that diamonds are a scam are not simultaneously attracted to diamonds.
- selcuka 3y agoHow? You don't usually buy diamonds for yourself, so the person who understands the diamonds are a scam does not have to be the same person who is attracted to diamonds.
- subpixel 3y agoIt’s far more common for people to collaborate on purchases like this than to surprise each other: you could go so far to say that people choose diamonds for themselves.
- mjamesaustin 3y agoBecause the marketing goal of the diamond industry is to convince buyers that the amount of money you spent indicates how much you love your spouse.
- lukas099 3y agoTheoretically you could spend the same amount an some insanely huge used diamond.
- imtringued 3y agoBut that doesn't dictate how much you're supposed to be paying for each individual diamond. If you have a "proof of love" budget of $6000 you could just buy five used diamonds instead. You could then start an arms race with other married couples and claim they don't love their spouses, because they only bought them a single diamond. Edit: I checked and multi diamond cluster rings look way more impressive and make single diamond rings look cheap and icky.
- climb_stealth 3y agoIt can feel like a bad luck kind of thing. Basically the only reason someone would have to sell their wedding rings are divorce or some other downturn. And don't want to invite bad luck by buying it. Similar to not buying clothing from someone deceased or a wedding dress from someone divorced. Can argue that this is not very rational. But much about the wedding process isn't :)
- eru 3y ago> Basically the only reason someone would have to sell their wedding rings are divorce or some other downturn. That's why your shop should only sell the weddings rings from people who had a long and successful marriage and died peacefully in their sleep at age 95.
- climb_stealth 3y agoHaha, yes indeed. It'll be the free-range eggs equivalent for buying jewelry. Ethically farmed from happy wedded couples.
- imtringued 3y agoI don't think people who insist on diamonds care about how they are sourced. After all the blood diamond thing didn't stop anyone. What people want is to be skillfully lied to.
- huytersd 3y agoThe blood diamond thing stopped a lot of people. I’d say it was the primary reason people pointed to when they passed on diamonds. Now almost all the diamonds you buy are expressed certified as conflict free.
- toast0 3y agoJust gotta market it right. Maybe section off by length of marriage and dissolved by death or divorce. A 60 year marriage, ended by death of one spouse shouldn't be unlucky. Especially if it was actually the death of both spouses in some tragically romantical way.
- ericjmorey 3y agoThey're sold as "estate jewelry".
- tempestn 3y agoThere are lots on eBay, or at least there were some years back when I was in the market.
- smegger001 3y agoYup got my wives ring from a pawnshop cheap
- SnorkelTan 3y agoUsing the plural of wife might be unintentionally adding context here.
- gnicholas 3y agoIf you're racking up wives, all the more reason to save money. Alternatively, I could imagine a new wife becoming quite upset upon learning that her engagement ring was from a pawn shop...possibly upset enough to leave!
- friend_and_foe 3y agoI might sound like an asshole, but if she's upset enough to leave you over that you should let her go. I wouldn't want a wife like that, personally.
- HPsquared 3y agoThey shared the ring too! Maximum efficiency.
- kgabis 3y ago"One Ring to rule them all"
- smegger001 3y agoPhone autocorrected the missing apostrophe to a multiple instead
- nextaccountic 3y agoYes and everybody should do it.
- flavius29663 3y agoEven a used one will be priced pretty high. Paid 400 or so for a used one, then immediately took it to someone else to verify it's real...they offered 75 for it(I didn't ask, she just said how much she'll pay for it).
- rerdavies 3y agoYou can buy a second-hand synthetic diamond for even less!