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Did none of the deaths of the last decade or two have an impact? Honest Q. I found that the deaths of Hunter S Thompson, David Bowie, and Sinead O'Conner put m

Did none of the deaths of the last decade or two have an impact? Honest Q. I found that the deaths of Hunter S Thompson, David Bowie, and Sinead O'Conner put me a bit on my heels. Some of the others had some kind of impact. And many of the others.. nothing. But at least those three, and maybe a couple of others, definitely threw me a bit. So that's the Q. Anything..? Nothing? If nothing, I'd personally find that possibly worth investigating. And I'm not big on para-social celebrity/artist relationships. But a few landed for me.

checkyoursudo 3y ago
I have had teenage classmates, beloved pets, sibling, parent, all my grandparents, and close friends die. These have been varying degrees of devastating for me, for a while at least. Some for a long time (my sibling dying young was so, so hard). Celebrities/artists/all-around-famous-people dying rarely affects me. Prince, maybe? But that was possibly because I like his music so much and probably grieved the loss of more music than the person whom I never met. Knowing about kids dying in war and from gun violence and domestic abuse and such probably hits me harder than hearing about any random celebrity dying.
flkiwi 3y ago
Oh MANY deaths were hard. Justice Ginsburg absolutely obliterated me (and, respectfully, others may have a different reaction and I understand that). But I haven't really experienced the "I'm old now and watching my heroes die" reaction. Does that make sense? Limited just to entertainment industry celebrities, I will admit I don't have a strong emotional reaction to ... most of them (other than the general empathetic sadness on behalf of a vibrant human's friends and family) ... but I don't think it's indicative of anything worrying.
- jcul 3y ago
  I agree, I find it hard to get too emotional about celebrities, even though I may have had great respect and admiration for them. For example, David Bowie, I was a little sad and disappointed to lose a great figure, but we all have to die. For some reason Sinead O'Connor was an exception to this, and I did feel quite emotional at her passing.
flkiwi 3y ago
One more thing: I lost a parent and a very close friend when I was young, so death has been part of life for me for perhaps an unusually long time.
sshine 3y ago
It sounds like the phenomenon of getting affected by the death of some particular celebrity is very subjective. For me there was a small “but he was young…” with Matthew Perry, but also an “oh well…”. I frequently talk with my 84-year old neighbours. One lost her husband a year ago, the other one’s wife has dementia. They themselves are sharp as ever, but their whole world is a museum of memories. They have grand children, but everyone they knew is dead. They like company, but one said there’s something special about same-aged people, they share things with. I don’t know when the death of a celebrity will hit me, but it’s probably when someone younger than me dies of non-accidental causes.

checkyoursudo 3y ago

I have had teenage classmates, beloved pets, sibling, parent, all my grandparents, and close friends die. These have been varying degrees of devastating for me, for a while at least. Some for a long time (my sibling dying young was so, so hard). Celebrities/artists/all-around-famous-people dying rarely affects me. Prince, maybe? But that was possibly because I like his music so much and probably grieved the loss of more music than the person whom I never met. Knowing about kids dying in war and from gun violence and domestic abuse and such probably hits me harder than hearing about any random celebrity dying.

flkiwi 3y ago

Oh MANY deaths were hard. Justice Ginsburg absolutely obliterated me (and, respectfully, others may have a different reaction and I understand that). But I haven't really experienced the "I'm old now and watching my heroes die" reaction. Does that make sense? Limited just to entertainment industry celebrities, I will admit I don't have a strong emotional reaction to ... most of them (other than the general empathetic sadness on behalf of a vibrant human's friends and family) ... but I don't think it's indicative of anything worrying.

jcul 3y ago
I agree, I find it hard to get too emotional about celebrities, even though I may have had great respect and admiration for them. For example, David Bowie, I was a little sad and disappointed to lose a great figure, but we all have to die. For some reason Sinead O'Connor was an exception to this, and I did feel quite emotional at her passing.

flkiwi 3y ago

One more thing: I lost a parent and a very close friend when I was young, so death has been part of life for me for perhaps an unusually long time.

sshine 3y ago

It sounds like the phenomenon of getting affected by the death of some particular celebrity is very subjective. For me there was a small “but he was young…” with Matthew Perry, but also an “oh well…”. I frequently talk with my 84-year old neighbours. One lost her husband a year ago, the other one’s wife has dementia. They themselves are sharp as ever, but their whole world is a museum of memories. They have grand children, but everyone they knew is dead. They like company, but one said there’s something special about same-aged people, they share things with. I don’t know when the death of a celebrity will hit me, but it’s probably when someone younger than me dies of non-accidental causes.