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Fair point, but I find the kind of advice given goes beyond being unhelpful into being actually damaging. It's exasperating at best and makes the 'patient' feel
by jmkd 3y ago
Fair point, but I find the kind of advice given goes beyond being unhelpful into being actually damaging. It's exasperating at best and makes the 'patient' feel as if no one understands them, or worse that the world is against them.
On balance I weigh the damage of that as more negative than the absence of advice that might help.
- xyzelement 3y agoThis is where you and I disagree. I find that a chance at tangible improvement is worth having to deal with the risk it cannot be accomplished.
- 1123581321 3y agoAs someone who used to think I had unique physiology, I eventually appreciated people who kept suggesting sensible advice with no downsides to try it. Thanks.
- eska 3y agoI used to be depressed and constantly received the same bullshit advice which led me to believe nobody understands me and that I’m incurable and I was about to give up. Please don’t be a cliche programmer and speak on matters outside of your expertise as if you know what you’re talking about, this is dangerous territory.