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I agree with "tough it up" to a large degree. However, the funny thing about people like you is you would never say "though it up" to a woman yet you would c
by jdthedisciple 3y ago
I agree with "tough it up" to a large degree.
However, the funny thing about people like you is
you would never say "though it up" to a woman
yet you would claim "women and men are equal"
disingenuous
- tw04 3y agoI literally have said that to a woman who was having a tough time her sr. year of high school with catty girls in her grade. There was no avoiding them, the behavior didn't rise to the level the school was going to do anything, and she wasn't in a position to transfer.
- em-bee 3y agoin addition, there are ways to share this message that is not belittling. people read "tough it out" as: "be a man, tough it out, haha", but it could also be: "yeah, i am sorry you are in a rough spot. unfortunately, there is no way you can avoid it, so you are going to have to protect yourself in other ways. here are a few things you can do.... don't give up and loose hope, this will go away."