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Sorry, I meant I don't care about her number of partners after we break up. Not about her as a person. I am not against or for people having multiple partners.

• willcipriano 3y ago
  Women go on dating sites and set height filters that rule out 80% of men. No problem. Men have a preference for women who made the choice to sleep with fewer men, ruling out 80% of them. Everybody loses their minds.
  • AlexandrB 3y ago
    Nobody is losing their minds, it's just weird, creepy shit. Especially because "number of sexual partners" generally correlates with age.
    • willcipriano 3y ago
      Men have preferred non-promiscuous women since the dawn of man, in the same manner women have prefered tall men. Why are men creepy and women not? Also why can't men prefer younger women in the manner that younger women tend to prefer older established men?
      • smcl 3y ago
        You can prefer what you like. To us what you are saying is a bit creepy.
        • willcipriano 3y ago
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          • smcl 3y ago
            If you say so! No skin off my nose :-)
          • ryanwaggoner 3y ago
            Now that’s creepy lol
      • racked 3y ago
        This is a big thing in the islamic world, where men want their wives to be virgins. I think this is (perhaps subconsciously) caused by insecurity; "what if the previous guy had a bigger dick than me?".
    • veave 3y ago
      Obviously when we talk about the number of sexual partners we mean in regards to the woman's age. It's not the same having had 10 partners at age 40 than at age 20. I talk about women because I'm a man! Women also select men in other ways. Nothing wrong about it. Men and women are different and we have different things that makes us tick.
    • stuckinhell 3y ago
      Let's be honest about double standards here. People are absolutely losing their minds because they feel personally attacked because they are promiscuous. I'm a woman who married her husband, and was extremely picky about marrying someone who wasn't promiscuous (low number of sexual partners). I have two sons, and a daughter. As a mother you absolutely see the double standards in a couple ways. Women on tiktok, instagram, and other social media constantly shame men for being under 6 feet. I'm Korean, and I see Asian men being shamed from being under 5'7 in Asian! Any male preferences get demonized, while female preferences get revered. It makes me worried for my kids. I don't want my daughter to grow up without a grasp on reality, and I don't want my sons being doormats.
      • manuelabeledo 3y ago
        > Any male preferences get demonized, while female preferences get revered. Let's preface with the fact that I am a male. What I have seen is the complete opposite. We males aren't "demonized" for being promiscuous, quite the opposite in fact. Females are outright called "sluts". What you see on the internet is a drop in the bucket. Social media will default to exaggerated points of view, because they generate engagement. Kids will outgrow these fake trends at some point.
        • willcipriano 3y ago
          Women prefer attached/promiscuous men. Women's attraction is largely influenced by social signaling. https://www.businessinsider.com/women-are-more-attracted-to-men-when-other-women-like-them-2018-1 https://www.businessinsider.com/women-are-more-attracted-to-...
          • manuelabeledo 3y ago
            > Women prefer attached/promiscuous men. Women's attraction is largely influenced by social signaling. Nowhere in the article says that women prefer "promiscuous" men, but men regarded as "attractive" by other women. It also does not justify the fact that women are regarded more negatively when they have had multiple sexual partners, compared to men.
    • IcyClAyMptHe 3y ago
      why is it "weird, creepy shit"? I think it's gross when people sleep around a lot and it's a major turn off. I don't see it as being any worse than finding someone attractive or not based on any other characteristics. At least people can control how much they sleep around; how tall you are is largely out of your hands.
      • smcl 3y ago
        It’s fun to have sex. Glad I could clear this up for you
        • IcyClAyMptHe 3y ago
          I never said it wasn't fun, I said it was unattractive. Glad I could clear this up for you.
    • lossolo 3y ago
      That's not true at all, I had multitude of friends that had 5-10+ sexual partners at age of 20, I also had friends with 3 sexual partners at age ~25-28. Number of sexual partners correlate with attractiveness and promiscuousness more than age. How is that creepy? Or maybe in which part of the world is it creepy? in your cultural circle? Because in EU where I live nothing about it is creepy. How is creepy to have own preference? I can't have it? It's not like I'm judging someone by their race that they can't change, I'm judging them by their own actions. They choose to behave in certain way, and it's ok, it's their choice to do what they want, but don't tell me I'm creepy because I have my own preferences, I can choose freely too.
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      • dragonwriter 3y ago
        You can have your own preferences and other people can find them creepy. Your right to subjective preferences doesn't invalidate people’s subjective view of those preferences.
  • johnnyanmac 3y ago
    Easy to lie about history, hard to lie for long about height.