I suspect that after "debugging" many types of real-world problems, you will find the root cause is poor relationships. Or more specifically, you are not really

I suspect that after "debugging" many types of real-world problems, you will find the root cause is poor relationships. Or more specifically, you are not really part of some group or community that you are trying to influence. I definitely am not good at being part of groups but my suspicion is that if you put time into trying to work on the exact things they are working on, then you may understand where they hang out and what their day to day problems are.