You're absolutely right and the attitude from many users and admins is extremely blind to the problem because they WANT a very close an narrow minded system tha

You're absolutely right and the attitude from many users and admins is extremely blind to the problem because they WANT a very close an narrow minded system that follows the admin authority and follows a "love it or leave it pattern". It's the opposite of user choice/power and, ironically, less flexible than reddit in some respects.