Either you control what is being relayed or you don't. The latter was not very successful (zeronet was a CSAM cesspit). If you choose control then you end up w

Either you control what is being relayed or you don't. The latter was not very successful (zeronet was a CSAM cesspit). If you choose control then you end up with the fediverse, because there is no such thing as the "one big fediverse" if every moderator makes different decisions.