Worth noting that it also worked fine in this instance, the two parties that were in conflict worked things out and found a better solution, and the snowflake w

Worth noting that it also worked fine in this instance, the two parties that were in conflict worked things out and found a better solution, and the snowflake who brought up the code-of-conduct was treated as network damage and routed around. It's vital to pay attention to the sheer volume of comments being made that all needed to be substantively responded to by one developer. The sense I get is very much that the appropriate attitude is: don't join the dog-pile if you don't want to be snapped at.