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> As long as the peripheral conflicts don’t get too egregious From a scar model perspective this is like a papercut/superficial injury which isn’t leaving you
by haldujai 3y ago
> As long as the peripheral conflicts don’t get too egregious
From a scar model perspective this is like a papercut/superficial injury which isn’t leaving you with a scar (or at least a very minor one).
> they don’t actually matter if the core stuff is still working.
Being stabbed in the heart (literally and metaphorically) will leave bigger and deeper scars that can impair core function and your heart will never pump blood as effectively again.
- superposeur 3y agoI guess, but reflecting further, the scar tissue/injury model is a little odd in that it focuses only on the negative, not on what the two parties actually get out of the relationship.
- solarmist 3y agoPeople remember and hold onto negative things. This is about unblocking/unclogging the system regularly to maintain proper function. It builds up over time so it needs to be regularly flushed.