> One has to resist the impulse. One of the best ways I have found to resist the impulse is to own all feedback. If your wife has an issue with something it's

> One has to resist the impulse. One of the best ways I have found to resist the impulse is to own all feedback. If your wife has an issue with something it's either a real issue or you failed to communicate it properly or it's a combination. My wife and I have a relationship where I explain something and she has issues forcing me to rework communication, the something, or a bit of both. Ends up being very helpful.