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I have walked away from racism on multiple occasions. Obviously if someone is actively striking you or detaining you that's a different category, which is well

I have walked away from racism on multiple occasions. Obviously if someone is actively striking you or detaining you that's a different category, which is well outside the context of my comment.

HeyLaughingBoy 4y ago
Let's not be disingenuous. I'm sure you understood what was meant.
- unsupp0rted 4y ago
  I guess I didn't understand what was meant. When I encountered problems based purely on my physical characteristics / ethnicity / nationality I was very upset and my response was to give up and go home for the day. I didn't try to harm the other person and I wouldn't have wanted them harmed. But nobody ever beat me with a baseball bat. That's a different category of racism that I haven't commented on and that obviously is different from the topic at hand.
  - HeyLaughingBoy 4y ago
    Fair enough. As a black person living in America, let me offer my interpretation of GP's statement, then. You can't walk away from racism, because it's always there. It will follow you whether you want it to or not. It's pervasive to the point that even if it's not immediately visible, you can rely on it to surface sooner or later. Your options are either to exit society altogether or learn to live with it. It doesn't require being beaten with a baseball bat for racism to have a significant impact on your life.
    - selimthegrim 4y ago
      The OP may appreciate Harold Washington's distillation of the above sentiment about Richard Daley - "I'm not glad he's dead but I'm glad he's gone" (also used by Richard Stallman about Steve Jobs)
    - unsupp0rted 4y ago
      I mean sure: you can't walk away from racism in humans like you can't walk away from narcissism in humans. At some point you'll encounter it. But I can walk away from a situation in which I'm being treated with racism, or a situation in which a narcissist is playing their zero-sum game against me. I don't hate the narcissist and I wouldn't enjoy their suffering. I just don't want anything to do with them. Nor the racist. I press life's "restart" button to get a different interaction with a different person, and that has worked well. Even where restarting is massively inconvenient for me. Because ultimately most people don't treat others with racism and most people don't treat others with "evil", so I'm more likely to get a reasonable person on my next attempt.
      - wpietri 4y ago
        I'm glad this has worked for you. Do you understand that many, many people can't just walk away from things? And further, do you understand that talking so broadly but with only your experience in mind may not come across well to others with different experiences?

I have walked away from racism on multiple occasions. Obviously if someone is actively striking you or detaining you that's a different category, which is well outside the context of my comment.

HeyLaughingBoy 4y ago

Let's not be disingenuous. I'm sure you understood what was meant.

unsupp0rted 4y ago
I guess I didn't understand what was meant. When I encountered problems based purely on my physical characteristics / ethnicity / nationality I was very upset and my response was to give up and go home for the day. I didn't try to harm the other person and I wouldn't have wanted them harmed. But nobody ever beat me with a baseball bat. That's a different category of racism that I haven't commented on and that obviously is different from the topic at hand.
- HeyLaughingBoy 4y ago
  Fair enough. As a black person living in America, let me offer my interpretation of GP's statement, then. You can't walk away from racism, because it's always there. It will follow you whether you want it to or not. It's pervasive to the point that even if it's not immediately visible, you can rely on it to surface sooner or later. Your options are either to exit society altogether or learn to live with it. It doesn't require being beaten with a baseball bat for racism to have a significant impact on your life.
  - selimthegrim 4y ago
    The OP may appreciate Harold Washington's distillation of the above sentiment about Richard Daley - "I'm not glad he's dead but I'm glad he's gone" (also used by Richard Stallman about Steve Jobs)
  - unsupp0rted 4y ago
    I mean sure: you can't walk away from racism in humans like you can't walk away from narcissism in humans. At some point you'll encounter it. But I can walk away from a situation in which I'm being treated with racism, or a situation in which a narcissist is playing their zero-sum game against me. I don't hate the narcissist and I wouldn't enjoy their suffering. I just don't want anything to do with them. Nor the racist. I press life's "restart" button to get a different interaction with a different person, and that has worked well. Even where restarting is massively inconvenient for me. Because ultimately most people don't treat others with racism and most people don't treat others with "evil", so I'm more likely to get a reasonable person on my next attempt.
    - wpietri 4y ago
      I'm glad this has worked for you. Do you understand that many, many people can't just walk away from things? And further, do you understand that talking so broadly but with only your experience in mind may not come across well to others with different experiences?