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Yea, more likely is the correct term. 100% agree on that. Unlike in travel, there is no map or compass to show you the right direction. Especially, when the ou
by hexo 3y ago
Yea, more likely is the correct term. 100% agree on that.
Unlike in travel, there is no map or compass to show you the right direction.
Especially, when the outcome is exact opposite than intended after many, many months of hard work on yourself.
- hammyhavoc 3y agoStruggling with autism, I not infrequently get on the wrong literal non-metaphorical train, stand on the wrong platform for an hour, pass the station I'm meant to disembark. It's rough. But you can extrapolate that idea to working on yourself too—sometimes we forget to get off the metaphorical train, don't know which train we're meant to be getting, not even sure how to get somewhere, but as long as someone is trying to get somewhere rather than just being content with where they are, I think that's beneficial in most scenarios. I've also struggled with depression, hence the "sitting on your ass", wallowed for many years and just tread water. Execute on intent—do something—carpe diem—make a change—you can always make another—just don't accept your life as-is if you're unhappy with it.
- hexo 3y agoI have to thank you for the positive mindset you're trying to teach us here! Also, as you say, it is very important to not accept bad state -- this is so important I can't stress it enough. Even more, because of how some generic people mindset can easily get you into "learned helplessness" state.
- matwood 3y ago> it is very important to not accept bad state If you’re going through hell, keep going!