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Why would someone prefer to live like ants? Moving from a large place with a forest backyard to a tiny apartment is a lower standard of living. You live in an

by ipaddr 4y ago

Why would someone prefer to live like ants? Moving from a large place with a forest backyard to a tiny apartment is a lower standard of living. You live in an apartment and trade away personal space and still have to take a train to work where you get little personal space. People can be happy in an apartment but most would trade that in for a house they could afford it.

Dylan16807 4y ago
> Why would someone prefer to live like ants? Why would someone prefer to live like a snail? > Moving from a large place with a forest backyard to a tiny apartment is a lower standard of living. You live in an apartment and trade away personal space and still have to take a train to work where you get little personal space. A house does not imply a large backyard. Suburbs are the bigger problem, and they don't usually have much forest. And apartments don't have to be tiny. If you're comparing against a house in a similar location, that buys a lot of apartment space.
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nayuki 4y ago
> prefer to live like ants Unnecessarily inflammatory wording. (Don't use the popular "shoebox" either.) > Moving from a large place with a forest backyard Most Americans live in suburban houses and over 90% of suburbs don't have a forest backyard. You're painting a sunny caricature. > tiny apartment Apartments come in a range of sizes, easily from 300 sq ft to 2000 sq ft. You get what you pay for. With houses, the minimum size is so large that many people have no choice but to overpay for space they don't need. > lower standard of living Being in proximity to people, shopping, and businesses, as well as having a shorter commute to work, contribute to a higher standard of living.
- tssva 4y ago
  > Being in proximity to people, shopping, and businesses, as well as having a shorter commute to work, contribute to a higher standard of living. I live in a suburb. I'm in proximity to people, shopping and businesses. In fact, I'm in closer proximity to shopping and businesses than most residential areas in the closest city. Most of the large employers in my area are also in the suburbs so, commuting would be even longer living in the city since it would involve taking public transportation or driving from the city to the suburbs. Even if I lived and worked in the city walking, taking a bus or the subway from residential areas to the employment centers would take longer than my 15-minute commute.
alexchantavy 4y ago
Eh, people can like different things. I think "most feel house > apartment" is way way too broad of a generalization. You give up space by living in a dense city but gain walkability and more public amenities, and on the other hand if you lived in the suburbs you would give that up for more personal space and - at least in the case of the US - better school districts. If you're rich you can have the plusses of all.
thomastjeffery 4y ago
Forest background? Hah. Living in an apartment is a compromise. Unfortunately, most apartments in the US do not have much to offer. Most are not well insulated, particularly for sound. The overwhelming majority are rentals; and most of those are managed by landlords who charge an arm and a leg, only to be less than helpful. Public transit relies on good apartments, and good apartments rely on public transit. It's symbiotic. The US has largely failed at providing both. People don't choose what is available in the market. They choose from what is available in the market.
- angled 4y ago
  MTR Corp has a great model for this type of development. It would be great to see other governments partnering with them!
throw0101c 4y ago
> You live in an apartment and trade away personal space and still have to take a train to work where you get little personal space. You have a limited view of 'urban living'. Want a front yard, back yard, and garage (attached to a laneway)? Plenty of that was built pre-WW2, and there's no reason why it couldn't be again: * https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Streetcar_suburb https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Streetcar_suburb * https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MWsGBRdK2N0&t=1m8s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MWsGBRdK2N0&t=1m8s The Oh the Urbanity channel has a video on the (misguided) idea that "urban living" = Manhattan / Hong Kong apartment blocks: * https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BCmz-fgp24E https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BCmz-fgp24E Examples (Streetview) of urban tree-lined streets which can support transit and where cycling is practical (and where a car is an option versus a necessity): * https://www.google.com/maps/place/125+Hampton+Ave,+Toronto,+ON https://www.google.com/maps/place/125+Hampton+Ave,+Toronto,+... * https://www.google.com/maps/place/50+Geoffrey+St,+Toronto,+ON https://www.google.com/maps/place/50+Geoffrey+St,+Toronto,+O... * https://www.google.com/maps/place/70+Jackman+Ave+Toronto,+ON https://www.google.com/maps/place/70+Jackman+Ave+Toronto,+ON See also: * https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cO6txCZpbsQ&t=9m28s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cO6txCZpbsQ&t=9m28s Fifteen minutes pedalling in one direction is downtown, fifteen minutes in the other is farm land.
baq 4y ago
Tokyo and Seul are poor cities full of people just longing for a house, right?
- tropicalbeach 4y ago
  If you would travel to those places you would actually realize how depressing it actually is. They have some of the highest depression rates in the world. They overlfowing with people you can barely walk on sidewalks. Someone explain how that is peaceful and enjoyable to live in.
Al-Khwarizmi 4y ago
I live in an apartment in a city (not in the US). Walking distances from my home: Pharmacy - seconds (right in the next building) Bar - seconds Supermarket - 1 minute Bakery - 1 minute Greengrocer's - 1 minute Children's playground - 1 minute Beach - 1 minute (OK, not representative of every apartment dweller, I'm privileged) :) Stationery shop - 2 minutes Bookshop - 2 minutes Bank branch with ATM - 3 minutes Amazon locker - 3 minutes My son's school - 4 minutes High school - 4 minutes Health center - 6 minutes Park - 7 minutes Library - 7 minutes Theatre - 13 minutes Cinema - 15 minutes Commute - 3 minutes walk to bus stop, buses every 5 minutes, 15-minute trip Train station - 25 minutes For me, moving to a house where I would need a car or much longer walks for most of those things would be a huge downgrade in standard of living, not an upgrade. Sure, I would have more space. Not worth it at all.
- maximus-decimus 4y ago
  What about not having to hear your neighbors? What about not having to worry about your neighbors hearing you? Maybe you like listening to loud music at night. Maybe you want a home theater. Maybe you want to play your piano/drum any time of the day. I think you're underestimating how nice it is to have space.
  - ericmay 4y ago
    Everything you are talking about exists at least as much in the suburbs and then add in the constant mowing, leaf blowing, and weed eating to it too. > I think you're underestimating how nice it is to have space. This isn’t a trade we need to make. You can have space and be able to walk to things if we just build right. Take the suburb you live in now. Pick 5 houses randomly and turn those into some of the things the OP mentioned. Now you have your space and walkability. Throw in an apartment and some variations of housing so young and old and people with various incomes can live there too and there you have it. Now we’ve reduce car usage so you aren’t driving 5 miles in a 2,000 lb machine to get a loaf of bread and you still get to keep your car and your space.
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Dylan16807 4y ago

> Why would someone prefer to live like ants? Why would someone prefer to live like a snail? > Moving from a large place with a forest backyard to a tiny apartment is a lower standard of living. You live in an apartment and trade away personal space and still have to take a train to work where you get little personal space. A house does not imply a large backyard. Suburbs are the bigger problem, and they don't usually have much forest. And apartments don't have to be tiny. If you're comparing against a house in a similar location, that buys a lot of apartment space.

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nayuki 4y ago

> prefer to live like ants Unnecessarily inflammatory wording. (Don't use the popular "shoebox" either.) > Moving from a large place with a forest backyard Most Americans live in suburban houses and over 90% of suburbs don't have a forest backyard. You're painting a sunny caricature. > tiny apartment Apartments come in a range of sizes, easily from 300 sq ft to 2000 sq ft. You get what you pay for. With houses, the minimum size is so large that many people have no choice but to overpay for space they don't need. > lower standard of living Being in proximity to people, shopping, and businesses, as well as having a shorter commute to work, contribute to a higher standard of living.

tssva 4y ago
> Being in proximity to people, shopping, and businesses, as well as having a shorter commute to work, contribute to a higher standard of living. I live in a suburb. I'm in proximity to people, shopping and businesses. In fact, I'm in closer proximity to shopping and businesses than most residential areas in the closest city. Most of the large employers in my area are also in the suburbs so, commuting would be even longer living in the city since it would involve taking public transportation or driving from the city to the suburbs. Even if I lived and worked in the city walking, taking a bus or the subway from residential areas to the employment centers would take longer than my 15-minute commute.

alexchantavy 4y ago

Eh, people can like different things. I think "most feel house > apartment" is way way too broad of a generalization. You give up space by living in a dense city but gain walkability and more public amenities, and on the other hand if you lived in the suburbs you would give that up for more personal space and - at least in the case of the US - better school districts. If you're rich you can have the plusses of all.

thomastjeffery 4y ago

Forest background? Hah. Living in an apartment is a compromise. Unfortunately, most apartments in the US do not have much to offer. Most are not well insulated, particularly for sound. The overwhelming majority are rentals; and most of those are managed by landlords who charge an arm and a leg, only to be less than helpful. Public transit relies on good apartments, and good apartments rely on public transit. It's symbiotic. The US has largely failed at providing both. People don't choose what is available in the market. They choose from what is available in the market.

angled 4y ago
MTR Corp has a great model for this type of development. It would be great to see other governments partnering with them!

throw0101c 4y ago

> You live in an apartment and trade away personal space and still have to take a train to work where you get little personal space. You have a limited view of 'urban living'. Want a front yard, back yard, and garage (attached to a laneway)? Plenty of that was built pre-WW2, and there's no reason why it couldn't be again: * https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Streetcar_suburb https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Streetcar_suburb * https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MWsGBRdK2N0&t=1m8s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MWsGBRdK2N0&t=1m8s The Oh the Urbanity channel has a video on the (misguided) idea that "urban living" = Manhattan / Hong Kong apartment blocks: * https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BCmz-fgp24E https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BCmz-fgp24E Examples (Streetview) of urban tree-lined streets which can support transit and where cycling is practical (and where a car is an option versus a necessity): * https://www.google.com/maps/place/125+Hampton+Ave,+Toronto,+ON https://www.google.com/maps/place/125+Hampton+Ave,+Toronto,+... * https://www.google.com/maps/place/50+Geoffrey+St,+Toronto,+ON https://www.google.com/maps/place/50+Geoffrey+St,+Toronto,+O... * https://www.google.com/maps/place/70+Jackman+Ave+Toronto,+ON https://www.google.com/maps/place/70+Jackman+Ave+Toronto,+ON See also: * https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cO6txCZpbsQ&t=9m28s https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cO6txCZpbsQ&t=9m28s Fifteen minutes pedalling in one direction is downtown, fifteen minutes in the other is farm land.

baq 4y ago

Tokyo and Seul are poor cities full of people just longing for a house, right?

tropicalbeach 4y ago
If you would travel to those places you would actually realize how depressing it actually is. They have some of the highest depression rates in the world. They overlfowing with people you can barely walk on sidewalks. Someone explain how that is peaceful and enjoyable to live in.

Al-Khwarizmi 4y ago

I live in an apartment in a city (not in the US). Walking distances from my home: Pharmacy - seconds (right in the next building) Bar - seconds Supermarket - 1 minute Bakery - 1 minute Greengrocer's - 1 minute Children's playground - 1 minute Beach - 1 minute (OK, not representative of every apartment dweller, I'm privileged) :) Stationery shop - 2 minutes Bookshop - 2 minutes Bank branch with ATM - 3 minutes Amazon locker - 3 minutes My son's school - 4 minutes High school - 4 minutes Health center - 6 minutes Park - 7 minutes Library - 7 minutes Theatre - 13 minutes Cinema - 15 minutes Commute - 3 minutes walk to bus stop, buses every 5 minutes, 15-minute trip Train station - 25 minutes For me, moving to a house where I would need a car or much longer walks for most of those things would be a huge downgrade in standard of living, not an upgrade. Sure, I would have more space. Not worth it at all.

maximus-decimus 4y ago
What about not having to hear your neighbors? What about not having to worry about your neighbors hearing you? Maybe you like listening to loud music at night. Maybe you want a home theater. Maybe you want to play your piano/drum any time of the day. I think you're underestimating how nice it is to have space.
- ericmay 4y ago
  Everything you are talking about exists at least as much in the suburbs and then add in the constant mowing, leaf blowing, and weed eating to it too. > I think you're underestimating how nice it is to have space. This isn’t a trade we need to make. You can have space and be able to walk to things if we just build right. Take the suburb you live in now. Pick 5 houses randomly and turn those into some of the things the OP mentioned. Now you have your space and walkability. Throw in an apartment and some variations of housing so young and old and people with various incomes can live there too and there you have it. Now we’ve reduce car usage so you aren’t driving 5 miles in a 2,000 lb machine to get a loaf of bread and you still get to keep your car and your space.
  - maximus-decimus 4y ago