> They have been regularly desecrating his father's grave, who committed suicide due to Amish abuse. What do you mean by "they?" Amish people in general? Or so

> They have been regularly desecrating his father's grave, who committed suicide due to Amish abuse. What do you mean by "they?" Amish people in general? Or some specific people or group (that you have not identified)? Consider how you'd feel about saying "they" to refer to some individual transgression by other groups.