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One thing these articles usually fail to mention is the fact that college/university is also a huge social experience. I'm a young person who took an apprentic
by jonathantf2 4y ago
One thing these articles usually fail to mention is the fact that college/university is also a huge social experience.
I'm a young person who took an apprenticeship instead of going to university - only one of my high school friends did the same as me, literally everybody else went onto university. I'm from a small town, there's not much going on and apart from when all my friends come back at Christmas and those few weeks in the summer I'm not doing much of anything other than work and sitting on my computer. I imagine if I grew up in a city this would be completely different but there's not much opportunity to make friends of my age around here and I really really really wish I had gone to university just so I wouldn't be so damn lonely, even if learning on the job works better for me.
(oh and the fact that most companies don't recognise the qualification I do have, makes it pretty much useless)
- nonethewiser 4y agoOther social experiences that you pay a lot for include country clubs and Scientology.
- dudul 4y agoThere are probably cheaper ways to make friends.
- karmelapple 4y agoI must admit this was very useful for me, too. Not just for making friends, but living semi-on-your-own, having some familiar but mostly new faces, and the excitement of certain activities. Since you didn’t choose that road, don’t beat yourself up, but make friends in other ways. Do you have meetups nearby? Attend them if so. If not, create them and see who might want to attend. Even advertise at a nearby community college or other means if possible.